I spy lantic has done Chanel, well done lantic, and thanks for the review, even though a tad generalised. Please share all experiences, it is not often that it happens...
Just had a private message from someone, asking why some people get incontinence, and some - don't. As I said, any forced entry will cause a disruption of the sphincter. If the sphincter is well controlled and relaxed enough to take whatever is penetrating with minimal, or at leat controlled effort, then trauma is not likely. No trauma - no incontinence.
The best recognised authority on anal sex in the world is a sedx worker called Tristan Taormino. I refer all interested to read her work, and watch her video "Tristan Taormino's Ultimate Guide To Anal Sex". There she explains everything, guidance is step by step, and on top of it is one of the sexiest videos I have ever watched.
Just a couple of points to add:
1. buy yourself a douche, douche your rectum with water at body temperature or slightly warmer, multiple times until only clear water flows back out.
2. Glyceryl trinitrate cream on the anus helps relax it, highle recommended aid for beginners and experienced anal players alike.
The rest is as pointed out in my first post:
Douche, apply the cream, wait a few minutes, and then :
1. Lots of lube, water based (KY jelly or any purpose gel from the sex shop), never can be too much;
2. Master the art of anal masturbation, i.e you and your hand (fingers);
3. Always stop if there is pain;
4. Learn to keep the anus open after removal of the object/fingers/penis;
5. Be patient, and expect patience from your partner;
6. The more often you do it, the better it gets;
7. Will not cause incontinence, unless forced, as in rape;
8. The main culprit for anal and urinary incontinence is vaginal childbirth.
Hahahahaha good one! I was referring to my import order. Let me guess, the grocery list consisted of viennas, russians and choc dips? Actually, I read the Greek post and saw what it consisted of. Deo cannisters? Really?
I'm around, just been (and will remain for a while) super busy. How I wish I was locked up at Leila B's. I actually might visit her sooner than expected. A JHB trip is looking up, crossing my fingers.
I love Tristan's ebook. When things normalise, I will finish it. Does she have any more books? No news on the shemale front. I don't have the time to look and anyway there isn't any hope for CT from the look of things. I can only hope my Brazilian friend visits again.
When Brasil visits, mortals keep hushed and humbled....
Deo canisters - popular, often get lost inside, difficult to remove yourself or to just push out, to the great amusement of the ER staff!
When you visit Leila B - please a review!!
I don't know of more books, but lots of lectures and talks. Transcripts can be found by asking Mr G.
Keep sexy, gal!
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