On 2026-06-30 08:11:51 BryceK said:
Been asking for a 'race' feature for years. If I want to find a coloured girl, or an Indian, it takes multiple searches and phone calls. Highly annoying.

I think the problem with this was that it was abused. Some advertisers were just lying about their race and there was no way to verify it.

Pussy hair feature!!!

Remove the waste of time Zodiac sign and add pussy hair so those that want it can find it and those that don't want it can avoid it.

JP69

On 2026-07-01 13:04:46 JackParrow69 said:
Pussy hair feature!!!

Remove the waste of time Zodiac sign and add pussy hair so those that want it can find it and those that don't want it can avoid it.

JP69

I have to agree that the Zodiac Sign is pointless.

I would make Age verification mandatory because there are way too many Girls magically stuck in their 20's lol!

Dear members.

We will not be implementing a race feature. This has been addressed every time the subject has been raised.

We do not want advertisers to be categorised, filtered, or judged by race on the platform.

If an advertiser feels her race is relevant and wants to disclose it, she is free to do so in her own description. This keeps the choice with the advertiser and avoids making race a platform-controlled category.

Regards
ESA Support

What about the Brazilians from the Cape Flats mxm

On 2026-07-01 16:53:01 shoeguy said:
What about the Brazilians from the Cape Flats mxm

Those were removed yesterday sir

On 2026-07-01 23:13:12 DukPiel said:
On 2026-07-01 16:53:01 shoeguy said: What about the Brazilians from the Cape Flats mxm

Those were removed yesterday sir

Lol, you on fire with the jokes this evening.

Imagine they rock up and say "you posted you're from Brazil on ESA. Let's see your visa documents?"

JP69

On 2026-07-01 16:50:59 ESA Forum Admin said:
Dear members.

We will not be implementing a race feature. This has been addressed every time the subject has been raised.

We do not want advertisers to be categorised, filtered, or judged by race on the platform.

If an advertiser feels her race is relevant and wants to disclose it, she is free to do so in her own description. This keeps the choice with the advertiser and avoids making race a platform-controlled category.

Regards
ESA Support

Thanks Admin, super cool with that, but can I make a teensy weensy request?

Can you get your photographers or the photoshop dudes to stop hiking the lighting up so much that it's super hard to distinguish black from coloured and coloured from white at least? Yeah yeah, some have light or dark skin anyway...BUT, the point is that the shade I see online is the shade I want to see when the door opens. It's that simple.

Some guys do book across the spectrum anyway, but when you ask the lady at the counter for vanilla ice cream and get chocolate, it's a bit disappointing. On that day. Another day I might want chocolate...but budgets are tight and we'd like to get it right first up.

Please let us get a better look at who we're really booking. Just even in general terms. The editing is getting out of hand sometimes.

Thank you.

I like the new feature.

Many forum dwellers don't like to comment, and sometimes I think a comment rocks, but don't want to go through the schlep of posting another comment just to say I agree. And then my comment is on page 4 but the original comment is on page 1.

So this gives us a chance to agree and move on.

Also, when someone doesn't agree with a comment and the only option is to make another comment saying you disagree, it inevitably leads to a dick measuring contest and it derails the topic at hand. A simple dislike improves the thread.

I also like seeing the general sentiment around a topic or comment when reading a thread. Sometimes I read something and go WTF?? And I immediately want to comment that I disagree. But then I see 20 likes and 2 dislikes, and then I read the comment again and give it more thought before responding. If 20 people agree, have I missed some context here somewhere? And then I read the few comments before that, because we don't always read an entire thread, and I see the oke actually has a point, he might've just said it in a way I wouldn't. So, I move on. Fight averted.

And let's face it, we all think we're right at the moment of commenting, or we wouldn't say what we say. The dislikes ratio on my comments going forward will make me rethink my position on things. It might not change my mind, but it will give me pause for thought. And hopefully others will do the same.

On 2026-07-02 08:52:50 The_Unicorn_Chaser said:
On 2026-07-01 16:50:59 ESA Forum Admin said: Dear members.

We will not be implementing a race feature. This has been addressed every time the subject has been raised.

We do not want advertisers to be categorised, filtered, or judged by race on the platform.

If an advertiser feels her race is relevant and wants to disclose it, she is free to do so in her own description. This keeps the choice with the advertiser and avoids making race a platform-controlled category.

Regards
ESA Support


Thanks Admin, super cool with that, but can I make a teensy weensy request?

Can you get your photographers or the photoshop dudes to stop hiking the lighting up so much that it's super hard to distinguish black from coloured and coloured from white at least? Yeah yeah, some have light or dark skin anyway...BUT, the point is that the shade I see online is the shade I want to see when the door opens. It's that simple.

Some guys do book across the spectrum anyway, but when you ask the lady at the counter for vanilla ice cream and get chocolate, it's a bit disappointing. On that day. Another day I might want chocolate...but budgets are tight and we'd like to get it right first up.

Please let us get a better look at who we're really booking. Just even in general terms. The editing is getting out of hand sometimes.

Thank you.

You can ask the woman you chose to contact if she's comfortable sharing her ethnicity, but that's entirely her decision. Paying for a service doesn't entitle you to every piece of personal information you want.

Photographers don't need studio lighting to make someone appear lighter or darker. Natural light, shadows, camera settings, and exposure can all affect how a person's skin tone appears in a photo. The women have repeatedly confirmed that their photos are unedited, and ESA has confirmed the same.

These women are providing a paid service, they're not products with a checklist of personal attributes for your convenience. No one should be reduced to their race or ethnicity, and no woman is obligated to disclose or advertise hers simply because you can't get laid the natural way and need to solicit sex from a stranger.

She could just tell you to go fuck yourself, because the guys who do actually end up booking her don't care.