On 2023-07-17 17:07:26 chris.fourie66 said:
Hi there

I fully agree that its not on to cancel last minute, not show up etc.

But just want to point out that it works both ways as well...

For example I booked a massage with lady last year. An hour before the time she asked if we can move it 15mins later which i agreed to (but wasnt happy). Showed up on time (newly agreed time), phoned while at the gate and got no answer. I could see another client's car still parked there so decided to leave. 10 minutes later she sent a message asking where i was, and i told her i left because i dont have time to waste. Then she was pissed off with me for some reason

So again, i think its a case of everyone having to respect each others' time

Agreed.....
Sorry that happened to u

Jeez what a fool to cancel that bokkie. She looks seriously hot.

Whenever this topic pops up, there's always the "well ladies cancel/ghost as well and that wastes my time, so they shouldn't complain" responses

And sure, I've had a few occasions where I drove all the way to see a lady, arrive at the venue, and then nothing, which sucks. BUT what exactly do I really lose? I lose some time, and that's really about it. No money is lost on my part. In fact, you sometimes actually benefit, as the lady in question will often times be very apologetic and offer compensation (which happened to me).

But if a guy cancels it's considerably worse. As the original poster pointed out, the lady loses time AND money. A guy not showing up is a double dent to her income as A) the agreed upon payment doesn't arrive and B) other potentially paying clients cannot be accommodated.

So what I'm saying is that it's not really comparable. When a lady ghosts you she loses money, and you lose some time. When a guy ghosts a lady she loses time AND money (and time is also money), while the guy loses absolutely nothing.

On 2023-07-17 19:21:28 nsence said:
Jeez what a fool to cancel that bokkie. She looks seriously hot.

Yes she is very hot.

On 2023-07-17 19:39:57 boggle1 said:
Whenever this topic pops up, there's always the "well ladies cancel/ghost as well and that wastes my time, so they shouldn't complain" responses

And sure, I've had a few occasions where I drove all the way to see a lady, arrive at the venue, and then nothing, which sucks. BUT what exactly do I really lose? I lose some time, and that's really about it. No money is lost on my part. In fact, you sometimes actually benefit, as the lady in question will often times be very apologetic and offer compensation (which happened to me).

But if a guy cancels it's considerably worse. As the original poster pointed out, the lady loses time AND money. A guy not showing up is a double dent to her income as A) the agreed upon payment doesn't arrive and B) other potentially paying clients cannot be accommodated.

So what I'm saying is that it's not really comparable. When a lady ghosts you she loses money, and you lose some time. When a guy ghosts a lady she loses time AND money (and time is also money), while the guy loses absolutely nothing.

Don't think I agree... Maybe if you earn a salary it only wastes time...

If you work for yourself your time wasted is exactly the same as her time wasted

She is definitely a stunning lady, good personality and super hot.

Gosh, there's actually guys cancelling and not pitching for bookings when they secure one while there's us that they to secure a booking and can't I'm a while weekend. Flippen crazy!

I mean like seriously, I contacted 8 highly rated popular wgs on Saturday. Half didn't even respond to date to my very polite flattering enquiries. One completely downgraded her offer and inflated the price from what was offered on PM which she reached out to me and offered in the first place. Another was chatting and responding so I requested to book with confirmed time as she said she was working and available and she went silent at that point until Sunday evening. Another only responded on Sunday to Saturday mornings enquiry saying she's available and her prices where about triple what was on the forum. Another saved my number today since only today can I see her pic but still hasn't responded to my compliments and enquiry. And these were all highly rated wgs...

Hell, was just chatting to a group of mates now who experienced similar this weekend and it actually makes more sense to book newbies which is what I ended up doing at 22:30 last night just so I didn't let the whole weekend pass without getting my punt and wasting my freshly shaved balls and expensive cologne and the booking was great and for taking a fucking chance on someone with no cred. Review to follow.

Go figure! We live in a fucked up time.

N4P

On 2023-07-17 20:02:30 Need4Passion said:


Go figure! We live in a fucked up time.

N4P

For once I 100% agree with you!

On 2023-07-17 19:53:14 chris.fourie66 said:
On 2023-07-17 19:39:57 boggle1 said: Whenever this topic pops up, there's always the "well ladies cancel/ghost as well and that wastes my time, so they shouldn't complain" responses

And sure, I've had a few occasions where I drove all the way to see a lady, arrive at the venue, and then nothing, which sucks. BUT what exactly do I really lose? I lose some time, and that's really about it. No money is lost on my part. In fact, you sometimes actually benefit, as the lady in question will often times be very apologetic and offer compensation (which happened to me).

But if a guy cancels it's considerably worse. As the original poster pointed out, the lady loses time AND money. A guy not showing up is a double dent to her income as A) the agreed upon payment doesn't arrive and B) other potentially paying clients cannot be accommodated.

So what I'm saying is that it's not really comparable. When a lady ghosts you she loses money, and you lose some time. When a guy ghosts a lady she loses time AND money (and time is also money), while the guy loses absolutely nothing.

Don't think I agree... Maybe if you earn a salary it only wastes time...

If you work for yourself your time wasted is exactly the same as her time wasted

Sure, but choosing to go see a lady while working for yourself is, in and of itself, time spent away from work. You choosing to go to her is you choosing to put time away from work to engage in non-work related activities. Since you're the one initiating the meeting, you've already made peace with the fact that you're going to spend that time not working.

On 2023-07-17 15:45:51 wild_one said:
[QUOTE;4269599;Angie] On 2023-07-17 14:00:01 wild_one said:

Well it is relevant because if you ghost a client it is his prerogative to phone you a few days later from an unknown number to show you what it feels like , do you understand that sweetie or should I draw you a picture

I think you are going to have to paint me a picture sweetie... with relevance to me, I've never had an appointment which wasn't catered for... and I don't answer private numbers... so I'm very much confused why you would single me out here.... Maybe a skilled drawing from a "highly-intelligent" MF such as yourself will help....

In return, It would appear you need some help with that huge chip on your shoulder? Did Angie piss you off in the past? Did she not acknowledge you in some way cause she dont know you exist? Does it offend you when Angie stands up for herself and her peers?
MAYBE while you at it, draw that picture for me too?