What many of us need is a sugarbaby. But let me speak for myself only. I want someone to spoil a bit. Someone to text with normal kak as well (eg, my dog ate my homework), I want to care a bit and I want someone who is happy to see a text from me. Someone who is proud of me despite the fact that i may or may not be pride worthy.
Obviously the odd sexy Pic and text would also be welcome! I want someone to take a relaxed bath with. To sit in the garden and watch the weaver at work while we smoke and share a sundowner. And if she were to tease me with an upskirt view while we do it, so much the better. I need unrushed!
Yes, the courtesan part and purple sides of GFE too, but the last 2 you can buy.

All of the above can be had from a "kept woman" (sorry for the derogatory term, but I don't know a respectful alternative). Only problem is...I can't afford one

Game over

I think the difference between escort and prostitute is:

Escort = We sell time not sex

Prostitutes = Sell sex not time.

Courtesan was the only female who could lift her dress up to her waist. And spend time with the king and his company while on hunts EXC.

On 2023-11-03 06:29:33 Cunilinkiss said:
What many of us need is a sugarbaby. But let me speak for myself only. I want someone to spoil a bit. Someone to text with normal kak as well (eg, my dog ate my homework), I want to care a bit and I want someone who is happy to see a text from me. Someone who is proud of me despite the fact that i may or may not be pride worthy.
Obviously the odd sexy Pic and text would also be welcome! I want someone to take a relaxed bath with. To sit in the garden and watch the weaver at work while we smoke and share a sundowner. And if she were to tease me with an upskirt view while we do it, so much the better. I need unrushed!
Yes, the courtesan part and purple sides of GFE too, but the last 2 you can buy.

All of the above can be had from a "kept woman" (sorry for the derogatory term, but I don't know a respectful alternative). Only problem is...I can't afford one

Game over

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What you want is what we all want (to some extent), even the ladies, and doesn't require money,... and I doubt it can be bought. Even if paid for a short while, it won't be exactly like you want it, and you likely to be disappointed. My view is to focus more on what you can give and see how it's returned and enjoy what comes back (karma) in the way it comes and not necessarily comparing it to the way you want it. Unfortunately we can't ever control another human and have them subject to our will and desires (and I know thats not what you saying). There is a slight difference from needing another human to meet your needs and meeting your needs through interactions with another/ other human(s), the latter being unpredictable and unknown, a journey to be experienced as opposed to a destination to reach.

Ps, while you alive the game isn't over

Good distinction, but I enjoy a beer and a smoke, but can't afford R3000 or whatever for a lazy afternoon.

Back to sugarbaby? Someone who also prefers a smoke and a beer, but prefers to do it in easy company. I know you need to eat, but where does a balanced lifestyle fit into an escorts life?
The guy in the corporate world who earns R30k/m may even be happier than the workslave that earns R60k/month but has to work 60+ hrs/week to earn that. (I picked the numbers for easy math - so these folks sell expert skills, often earned with double digit years of tertiary studies, for an effective rate of R250/hr)

I think sometimes ladies forget at what hourly rate the money that pays them are earned. You may sell your body for a high hourly rate, but I promised you, many of us sold our souls to the company for much less.

On 2023-11-03 07:00:04 Cunilinkiss said:

The guy in the corporate world who earns R30k/m may even be happier than the workslave that earns R60k/month but has to work 60+ hrs/week to earn that. (I picked the numbers for easy math - so these folks sell expert skills, often earned with double digit years of tertiary studies, for an effective rate of R250/hr)

I think sometimes ladies forget at what hourly rate the money that pays them are earned. You may sell your body for a high hourly rate, but I promised you, many of us sold our souls to the company for much less.

I owe, I owe my soul to the company store it's off to work I go.....

On 2023-11-01 10:00:53 Russian Bridgitte said:
In SA the impression is one that an "escort" is nothing more than a good fuck with the extras, that are secondary of course, of good companionship and and and.


One sees it in the reviews ( how deep he stuck his dick in her / how she took it all ways/ how she squirted till the whole room was soaked and they both nearly drowned ....hahahahahhahahha!!!!!), the questions posed on the forum, the back and forth about price, time watching and other various posts.

The lists demanded as to what is on offer, how long, how much, which position, with or without.....blaablabla blaaaaaaa!!!!!

..and THAT seems to fire many a forum contributor to wet his pants before he has even seen the lady.


Labels!
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Nuru.
Tantra.
Sensual.
Body to body.....WTF!...in essence all the same as is




I wonder....does anybody truly wish to have a "courtesan " experience or rather have the bodily satisfaction of some of what an escort offers....which in essence is an iota what could be had.

I am sure many will disagree with me.

But prove me wrong and tell me why I a wrong.

Is it the SP's?

Is it the punters?

Is it the culture ?

RB.

Is it not a spectrum though .... sometimes you meet a stranger for an hour of pure lust, then there are those you cultivate longer relations with and then there are those you enter into long term partnerships with. Money inconsequential... life to be lived

Michelle Savaty hits the nail on the head. Thats exactly what an escort is.

Cunnilkiss. Life is not fair. If you pay a girl for sex she realy dont care what u do to get your money or who u sold ur soul to to get the money u getting.
Escorts are doing the same. They do what they do and the clients do what they do.
When i say life is not fair.
One can drive a merc the other a vw beetle doing the same job
Same as the girls have pussies and u dont.

Tnx @Pumpkin. Best I can do it to try not to be a pussy

@Jasimo. Sounds like you know

On 2023-11-03 06:48:51 Michelle Savaty said:
I think the difference between escort and prostitute is:

Escort = We sell time not sex

Prostitutes = Sell sex not time.

Courtesan was the only female who could lift her dress up to her waist. And spend time with the king and his company while on hunts EXC.

And then I say....

Even a prostitute has known to catch the kings eye with a swish of her skirt , banter light, a naughtiness in her eyes and become the courts favorite courtesan....RB

Escort is cool 80's car made by Ford,like XR3

Whore is song by In This Moment.

Difference is one is song and one is car.

Similarities is they are both very good.

Because is Friday,and close to weekend,I make it the stupid schoolboy commenting.

Ok,continue the serious discussion so I can improve it the language and appear more clever than I am