On 2025-09-21 15:43:54 Caton said:
On 2025-09-21 10:40:44 Mxtress Fussy Bunny said: I'm happy to share that after more than a decade in the swinging scene, I decided to stop taking time off work to have fun adult time...
I heard a similar story from another lady. She was hooking up for NSA fun and guys always wanted to come to her place and she was always out of pocket having to buy snacks, condoms, etc, and one day thought: why not have fun plus get paid for it? And the rest is history.
Exactly, it makes so much sense for me!
I've been wanting to join the industry for a few years, waiting for decrim...
But last year, I decided Fuck it, and I've had the best time!
;)
Edited: 2025-09-23 15:46:11
On 2025-09-21 19:46:55 Sexyhumour said:
On 2025-09-21 17:49:53 Aldo Sims said: On 2025-09-21 17:17:20 Kaio said:
Why the hostility?
This forum is such a bizarrely aggressive space. You would swear none of us were ever getting laid.
Seems like some are really not getting laid and this is like their social media platform...free to vent,free to nag and free to troll, it's easy. They are just forum members, it's like an organisation of some sort.
In Zulu they say " indlala ibanga ulaka " don't know how to phrase this in English but I'll try "hunger causes what what", sexual starvation is the root of all frustrations and anger. Good people let's f**k and be merry...
To answer the OP...cutting a long story short,I was introduced by a friend, even had a mini welcome party on the forum and some great cocks welcomed me which I still ride to date.
I hope I'm not being disrespectful; but you and I ma'am, (to put it in your own words) need to fuck and be merry very soon. I missed out on your awesome company some years back and want to rectify that soon :)
Edited: 2025-09-23 16:50:52
On 2025-09-23 15:45:31 Sir Shadow Hefner said:
On 2025-09-21 19:46:55 Sexyhumour said: On 2025-09-21 17:49:53 Aldo Sims said: On 2025-09-21 17:17:20 Kaio said:
Why the hostility?
This forum is such a bizarrely aggressive space. You would swear none of us were ever getting laid.
Seems like some are really not getting laid and this is like their social media platform...free to vent,free to nag and free to troll, it's easy. They are just forum members, it's like an organisation of some sort.
In Zulu they say " indlala ibanga ulaka " don't know how to phrase this in English but I'll try "hunger causes what what", sexual starvation is the root of all frustrations and anger. Good people let's f**k and be merry...
To answer the OP...cutting a long story short,I was introduced by a friend, even had a mini welcome party on the forum and some great cocks welcomed me which I still ride to date.
I hope I'm not being disrespectful; but you and I ma'am, (to put it in your own words) need to fuck and be merry very soon. I missed out on your awesome company some years back and want to rectify that soon :)
Aaaah you ain't being disrespectful, the only thing you are guilty of is depriving yourself of goodies by not dipping your joystick in my honeypot as yet. This is a crime beyond the files dropped at Madlanga commission of inquiry ...How could you???
If you are a lover of good things don't waste more time, I'm just a phone call/ WhatsApp away. Let's get this party started. Let's f**k and be merry*wink*
Older guy got interested in me. Few red flags but one day he tells me he is going to help me get a job and I'd need to show my appreciation. Takes me to a brothel (I didn't know at the time).
He starts talking like he is a big shot to the owner, telling her how successful he is but has to hide it. Asks me to leave the room. I do and after a few minutes, he comes out angry and tells me, "we're leaving".
At this point, I still don't know where I am, what kind of business this is. I'm confused.
The owner tells me, "you're welcome to work here but we don't buy girls. He's asked me for R2000 to have you work here as a 'recruitment fee'. We don't do that." She hands me a card.
He drags me to his car, angered by embarrassment and tells me to throw the card out and tells me we are going to his house and he's going to work out his frustration on me (rough sex). I tell him no and get dropped off and chose to never see him again despite his numerous attempts.
After a few years when I was in a tough spot and needed work, I remembered that brothel and made contact.
That's the first time of finding out about brothels, it took me a year to find out about massage venues! Very little information out there and girls too scared to talk about other venues back then.
XoXo
On 2025-09-23 16:48:56 Sexyhumour said:
On 2025-09-23 15:45:31 Sir Shadow Hefner said: On 2025-09-21 19:46:55 Sexyhumour said: On 2025-09-21 17:49:53 Aldo Sims said: On 2025-09-21 17:17:20 Kaio said:
Why the hostility?
This forum is such a bizarrely aggressive space. You would swear none of us were ever getting laid.
Seems like some are really not getting laid and this is like their social media platform...free to vent,free to nag and free to troll, it's easy. They are just forum members, it's like an organisation of some sort.
In Zulu they say " indlala ibanga ulaka " don't know how to phrase this in English but I'll try "hunger causes what what", sexual starvation is the root of all frustrations and anger. Good people let's f**k and be merry...
To answer the OP...cutting a long story short,I was introduced by a friend, even had a mini welcome party on the forum and some great cocks welcomed me which I still ride to date.
I hope I'm not being disrespectful; but you and I ma'am, (to put it in your own words) need to fuck and be merry very soon. I missed out on your awesome company some years back and want to rectify that soon :)
Aaaah you ain't being disrespectful, the only thing you are guilty of is depriving yourself of goodies by not dipping your joystick in my honeypot as yet. This is a crime beyond the files dropped at Madlanga commission of inquiry ...How could you???
If you are a lover of good things don't waste more time, I'm just a phone call/ WhatsApp away. Let's get this party started. Let's f**k and be merry*wink*
Lol, I'm a lover of beautiful things and you ma'am have been on the radar for too long :)
She was told of the opportunities out here in SA by a friend, and made the leap. She knew exactly what the work was, by the way. This was the early 2000s and I was shocked at what her take-home pay was (after rent, bosses fees, etc.). I thought I was doing well for someone in their 20s but she was taking home 3 or 4 times what I was.
As for me, I got into punting during the 90s, around age 19. I was taken by some older friends to that same infamous place in Hillbrow..
I stopped for a period of about 9 years, after I got married, but when the sex died I started my adventures again. Never looked back!
Fuck sakes just when I started earning a decent enough salary to be able to travel to the Mecca of sex and go punt myself silly over there the economies hit the shitter hard. Now, I can just afford to drive myself to my office and back lol.
As for how I got started, I was just a horny 18-year-old who really liked sex, like a lot. I'd almost call it an addiction, but it hasn't negatively impacted my life yet, so I'll go with "vigorous sex drive".
During a dry spell of porn and masturbation I thought "damn I wish I could do that..." then "Wait, what if I just found an escort?" So, I promptly search "escorts in cape town" and made a call...
Thinking back, I went to some fucked up places as an 18-year-old just to have sex like I truly gave no fucks in the pursuit of punani. It's amazing how brave (or oblivious) you are when you are that horny and also how nave you are at that age even though you think you're a man already lol.
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