On 2023-01-15 09:29:33 Hein59 said:
Maybe the time is now...

Maybe, maybe not, I guess we'll never know

On 2023-01-15 11:49:55 JamesSpader said:
On 2023-01-13 08:33:44 Jason_Oliver said:
When having experienced so many different women, settling for one can be difficult, especially when different women do different things to you and you're stuck wishing that your wife/gf could do what "other" women does, not just in bed but simple things in life, like having someone who makes food a certain way that nobody else can make or somebody else's vibe and energy when coming home from a long day of work or even just cleaning up the spot together while vibing to so music. I'm afraid of having too many partners in my life because I'm afraid of not enjoying all these simple things in life with just one.


It's a product of our upbringing and education to submit to the notion that one person can potentially be all things to you.

The two become one notion is antiquated and simply is not the case. It should be amended to : The two otherwise fulfilled and happy people already living well (enough) balanced lives choose to become one at specific times for the purposes of a higher level of self expression and acceptance.

It is ok to have many people fulfill the many varied needs you may have, sexual or otherwise, wether you end up paying to fuck the ones you enjoy having some of these needs filled by, that is a choice however, and ultimately will interfere with or prohibit the opportunity to have some of the other needs fulfilled.

It's all about the choices and what you associate the higher value to.

Wise words

On 2023-01-15 11:49:55 JamesSpader said:
On 2023-01-13 08:33:44 Jason_Oliver said:
When having experienced so many different women, settling for one can be difficult, especially when different women do different things to you and you're stuck wishing that your wife/gf could do what "other" women does, not just in bed but simple things in life, like having someone who makes food a certain way that nobody else can make or somebody else's vibe and energy when coming home from a long day of work or even just cleaning up the spot together while vibing to so music. I'm afraid of having too many partners in my life because I'm afraid of not enjoying all these simple things in life with just one.


It's a product of our upbringing and education to submit to the notion that one person can potentially be all things to you.

The two become one notion is antiquated and simply is not the case. It should be amended to : The two otherwise fulfilled and happy people already living well (enough) balanced lives choose to become one at specific times for the purposes of a higher level of self expression and acceptance.

It is ok to have many people fulfill the many varied needs you may have, sexual or otherwise, wether you end up paying to fuck the ones you enjoy having some of these needs filled by, that is a choice however, and ultimately will interfere with or prohibit the opportunity to have some of the other needs fulfilled.

It's all about the choices and what you associate the higher value to.

Wise words

On 2023-01-15 10:06:37 Miss Barbie Doll said:
I didn't read the whole thread,but why on earth would you want to stop giving your dick for what it needs?
Hahahaha did you know that if you don't more often fuck,after the age of 45 years.you more likely to have prostate cancer?.

Well, if I continue doing this that "ideal family" won't start itself now will it lol

On 2023-01-15 11:16:40 Patsearch said:
I punt when I am single and when I have the time.

Amazing experiences; memories and adventures, all with a vast selection of beautiful ladies without any pretense or subterfuge.

Been doing it since the nineties and still going strong.

Also, when I do have a partner, she is very satisfied with my accumulated experience...

I guess that's another reason to continue. A man needs some practice to keep the form going, especially for the relationships

On 2023-01-16 05:05:21 Darthvader68 said:
Have not punted for months. The reason is that one WG just abused me emotionally. I just thought fuck you. I actually dont miss it. Why do i still visit ESA because just maybe a fantasy lady pops up but nothing until now. The longer you dont punt the less the need. But i cant say I will never punt again. There are a couple of MG here that if they offered FH I would be tempted back.

Talent always wonders on this site. Tempting is an understatement.

On 2023-01-16 05:22:03 Theand said:
nope. punting for me was the thrill of taboo.
from the apartheid days the taboo of being with black women, Indian and Asian women.
then the very next punt was with older women.
the there is the things you can do with a wg, you just can't with a gf.

wont stop punting. I still feel some of the taboos exist. it's still the thrill.

Maybe it's just my experience but some girls out here aren't even close to the level of WG's when it comes to the bedroom. Don't get me wrong my exes are great, but they'll never compare to how some WG are just able to treat a man in bed.

On 2023-01-16 07:29:46 Elmer_J_Fudd said:
On 2023-01-16 05:05:21 Darthvader68 said: Have not punted for months. The reason is that one WG just abused me emotionally. I just thought fuck you. I actually dont miss it. Why do i still visit ESA because just maybe a fantasy lady pops up but nothing until now. The longer you dont punt the less the need. But i cant say I will never punt again. There are a couple of MG here that if they offered FH I would be tempted back.

This comment sums up pretty well my reasons. Deleted my old profile of almost 10 years in 2020, took a break for a while and created a new profile ( this one ) to see if much has changed. Doubt I will punt much anymore :-/

We're all different, personally I'd laugh in her face if a WG tried to emotionally abuse me, cause there are literally a hundreds of options on here even though theres only a few that I'd actually go to, the thought of allowing a woman to emotionally break me down is no for me. Been there done that. So if she don't come correct I'm onto the next one that will.

I deleted my old profile twice bud so ja.... sometimes I think it's an addiction because I don't have issues with the mussis
I paid school fees many times too but that didn't stop me.
I don't think I will stop unless some divine intervention happens.

Some days I think about stopping and profiles like Rachel pop up and I start planning how to get away from work or the wife to pay my tributes

I have been in a few serious relationships with the same pattern...the most awesome person ever...for maybe like 3 months...then all the BS that was cleverly hidden comes out. Issues with family, with female friends, with you just existing. You can give them everything, attention, a chilled caring relationship, financial stability,love their children from previous marriages, even their pets, and they will still be unhappy and ungrateful. Some of these girls were even friends I knew for years before giving a relationship a go. I've been punting since 2001, and I've tried to stop many times for when I found "the right one". Turns out I'm either unlucky or I keep being attracted to the wrong type or I'm the problem. I used to berate my married friends for cheating on their spouses who are assumingly very awesome in public...now I can relate. Plus most normal women have issues with 69 and can never give you that awesome BJ that a pro can, can you really ever give that up?