The chances of getting HIV and really low. From BJ and pussy eating.
I am a fanatic pussy eater. And I am shit scared of HIV. I test every 3 months even though I do not do risky shit. Just in case.
It is well documented that pussy eating is safe. Virus particles often die in the saliva so I believe milk drinking is also safe.
Done it once and the feeling of fucking a woman and sucking her bloated tits is surreal.
Hope you find your woman.
More reading here
www.healthline.com/health/oral-sex-HIV.