shh-dont-tell

It wasn't meant as a negative.

And I am glad u in therapy. We all need some external advise when it comes to repetitive behaviour leading to our further demise.

And that does not exclude me...even a psychologist needs an outsider to point out a few truths they may be blinded to.

:)

RB.

Very interesting topic here.

I know 2 beautiful ladies from this site, they find husbands and they very happy, living a normal life like everyone.

My advice to all my gentleman's,when you find love in this site, please be serious, honest, respectful to the lady and to your relationship.

1) Delete your membership
2) Forcus on her and make her happy.
3) Take good care of her meaning her needs, beauty, take care out for shopping also give her a montly allowance

4) Don't use her, make sure you don't hurt her bcoz she's human not a toy or a machine. If you don't love her , don't pretend or waist her time, let her go and move on with your life.

Love is good communications, build strong connections between you 2 then respect and care will follow automatically.

5)Then your relationship will progress and grow to marriage and family.

All the best gents


Kisses

Slight flip; if you discover that a hun you've been seeing is a SP (and you yourself are a punter), would it bother you? I've had conversations with regulars and they always get so nervous when they meet a new dude that they like, and he's by all appearances, a civilian i.e. non-punter. I say to them, all dudes are punters.

On the note from Sir Shadow Hefner ...

Bfr 2015 it never entered my head, looking at any man, that he was paying for sex. It wasn't even a thing to think about, even when spouses pointed to the supposed infidelity of their partners.

Nor did I look at females and think she is a wg.

On entering the space in 2015, many things made more sense and, as I have said bfr...I wish I knew then what I know now .

Not that it would have made any difference in my personal life.
BUT it would definitely have given me a heads up, as it does now, when dealing with women and men in general.

RB.

On 2026-03-30 19:33:28 Sir Shadow Hefner said:
Slight flip; if you discover that a hun you've been seeing is a SP (and you yourself are a punter), would it bother you? I've had conversations with regulars and they always get so nervous when they meet a new dude that they like, and he's by all appearances, a civilian i.e. non-punter. I say to them, all dudes are punters.

Why would you say that to her? I doubt even 50% of guys punt.

On 2026-03-30 19:09:38 Amour No 1 (mobile Massage The said:
Very interesting topic here.

I know 2 beautiful ladies from this site, they find husbands and they very happy, living a normal life like everyone.

My advice to all my gentleman's,when you find love in this site, please be serious, honest, respectful to the lady and to your relationship.

1) Delete your membership
2) Forcus on her and make her happy.
3) Take good care of her meaning her needs, beauty, take care out for shopping also give her a montly allowance

4) Don't use her, make sure you don't hurt her bcoz she's human not a toy or a machine. If you don't love her , don't pretend or waist her time, let her go and move on with your life.

Love is good communications, build strong connections between you 2 then respect and care will follow automatically.

5)Then your relationship will progress and grow to marriage and family.

All the best gents


Kisses

It's not only man who should take care of a woman,women should also meet men halfway:)

On 2026-03-30 23:11:00 Miss Barbie Doll said:
On 2026-03-30 19:09:38 Amour No 1 (mobile Massage The said: Very interesting topic here.

I know 2 beautiful ladies from this site, they find husbands and they very happy, living a normal life like everyone.

My advice to all my gentleman's,when you find love in this site, please be serious, honest, respectful to the lady and to your relationship.

1) Delete your membership
2) Forcus on her and make her happy.
3) Take good care of her meaning her needs, beauty, take care out for shopping also give her a montly allowance

4) Don't use her, make sure you don't hurt her bcoz she's human not a toy or a machine. If you don't love her , don't pretend or waist her time, let her go and move on with your life.

Love is good communications, build strong connections between you 2 then respect and care will follow automatically.

5)Then your relationship will progress and grow to marriage and family.

All the best gents


Kisses


It's not only man who should take care of a woman,women should also meet men halfway:)

I totally agree with you on this one. Longtime!! Mwaaah!

On 2026-03-30 19:09:38 Amour No 1 (mobile Massage The said:
Very interesting topic here.

I know 2 beautiful ladies from this site, they find husbands and they very happy, living a normal life like everyone.

My advice to all my gentleman's,when you find love in this site, please be serious, honest, respectful to the lady and to your relationship.

1) Delete your membership
2) Forcus on her and make her happy.
3) Take good care of her meaning her needs, beauty, take care out for shopping also give her a montly allowance

4) Don't use her, make sure you don't hurt her bcoz she's human not a toy or a machine. If you don't love her , don't pretend or waist her time, let her go and move on with your life.

Love is good communications, build strong connections between you 2 then respect and care will follow automatically.

5)Then your relationship will progress and grow to marriage and family.

All the best gents


Kisses

I read this and all I see is one way traffic. What does the man get out of all of this? if its just sex, he is better off being a punter and she is better of being a WG.

"3) Take good care of her meaning her needs, beauty, take care out for shopping also give her a montly allowance "

So basically in your worldview the man needs to be her atm. If she wants to go shopping to take care of her needs and beauty she needs to make her own income.

"4) Don't use her, make sure you don't hurt her bcoz she's human not a toy or a machine. If you don't love her , don't pretend or waist her time, let her go and move on with your life."

But in point 3 you made, you are okay with her using him??

No I would not date a MG/WG, that would be stupid, and
Amour no 1 just us the answer why not. I would be nothing more than a walking ATM.

On 2026-03-31 08:01:56 SuckMe2 said:
No I would not date a MG/WG, that would be stupid, and
Amour no 1 just us the answer why not. I would be nothing more than a walking ATM.

Lol then you will marry her by fire by force,please contact your dearest Pastor we are getting married on Easter hahahahahahahahahaha

I bring the malebe and mabele on the table:)