So...summary: need a date, get a girlfriend. Need a fuck, book on esa. Dont mix the 2 or get it twisted. Wg are not our wives/galfriends/dates. All that needs to exist is respect, money and agreement.

I once took a lady (who advertises on this site) out for dinner. We agreed to wait for an evening when she did not have any appointments. I paid for dinner as well as her normal hourly rate, although I had no expectation of any service from her.

On 2017-01-11 15:49:27 Meg said:
On 2017-01-11 15:13:07 sednesar said: Just out of curiosity.
Is it bad manners to invite a SP to an lunch.
Not expecting anything.
I pay, normal lunch with maybe a glass or 2 of wine.
This can lay the platform for a later booking.

Sugar I get that alot.

We need to work...its working time they claim and we don't get paid if we don't work. I haven't got the time to meet up with clients. It's something personal to me. That's why I pay for a venue where the private and do there thing. Now I wonder how many men thinks I'm rude if I don't wanna sit there and know if git debts to pay?
Ps: om not there to build a relationship. ..I'm here to work. Sorry just my 2c.

100 % verstaanbaar

But would a WG fuck a guy she met at the bar/pub (for free) considering he does not know she is in the industry?

On 2017-01-11 16:06:43 Shamrock-sa said:
I once took a lady (who advertises on this site) out for dinner. We agreed to wait for an evening when she did not have any appointments. I paid for dinner as well as her normal hourly rate, although I had no expectation of any service from her.

That's how it's done, time is money, while I'm sitting there at the dinner I can pay for myself I might be losing business...

I've been on dinner dates and most of them I enjoyed as my time was paid for...

On 2017-01-11 16:12:15 seun said:
But would a WG fuck a guy she met at the bar/pub (for free) considering he does not know she is in the industry?

Only if I pick him up not the other way around...


And he mustn't ask for my number as I won't ask for his...

On 2017-01-11 13:14:36 Bbw Nadia said:
As I always say- I don't fuck for a plate of food and a glass of wine.

Gosh, you ladies can be brutal.Here I thought ariving for an appointment with a streetwise two and a dumpy coke would score me some points.

Lol, Iv'e gone out on several outings with guys Iv'e met on this site and have become very good friends, even having one of them sleep over when getting to plastered with me one night. Another having taken me out and me getting to wasted, ended up at his place naked, yet untouched in both cases. Not that they didn't want to (blankets hide nothing in the mornings, he he)

I have made amazing friends as well as clients. Friends that I allow into my personal space, don't expect freebies and have never taken advantage although they could have in many situations. My respect to each and every one of them for sharing in my time and allowing me to share in theirs. I even had the honor of spending Christmas and new years day with one of them and his amazing family since mine is mostly passed on or far away.

On the other hand, you get those on a consistent basis wanting to date because they think we are easy!

In my personal capacity, It's not easy! I get paid to fuck but if one thinks I owe them anything for a dinner and wine, then they have a big surprise coming their way especially if they say they want to get to know me.

My take on it: Im a whore, not a slut. I get paid for a service and expect no other contact thereafter except if it's to pay for another hour. A slut validates herself through promiscuity and hopes that someone she fucks might value her talents enough to fall in lust with her. Relationships like that don't last and are often very brief. Hence the reason why I have one night stands occasionally and never contact that person again unless it's for mutual benefit sexually and he didn't bore me previously.

Most of the guys Iv'e mentioned previously I met at socials, not at a dinner date or as clients and I found them interesting and respectful enough to the extent that I enjoy spending my free time with them!

I'm just being honest here.
... Some might like it others not.
Anyway...
Genoeg my MOER gestrip lol
Fok.
I like @Nadia's comment. 1000%
@Meg I totally agree with you.
@Climax you know me Im just straight like that.
I can't give out freebies.Maybe in my next life time. Maar daars rent, kos,water, ligte,kondoms,wipes ens money money money... That's what will make me happy then I can entertain you to your hearts contempt. Hell I will even play golf naked for you .. Just pay for my time lol
Xoxo
Sugar

Just can't get this right tonight can I?