On 2026-01-26 17:53:27 Coochie.Pounder1 said:
On 2026-01-26 17:41:41 Fris Frikkie said: A good friend of mine met a girl from industry about 16 yrs ago. They have been happily married for 14 yrs. In some instances it can work if you don't dwell on the past That's probably 1 out of 100 stories here unfortunately

More like 1 in 10,000.

JP69

I have dated a famous massage girl in the east of joburg till I had to go back home for some serious counselling with my wife. Never again.

The draw card here is sex. Seeking the "infamous" porn experience or gfe.

"She" is charming, sexy, fucks u like u like to be fucked...u are smitten.
Maybe she doesn't fuck but, this baby has her ducks in a row and will fleece u...she will give u what u THINK u are missing. Fill that "companionship/ loneliness" u feel weighing heavy.

She will guilt u into believing u do not understand her.

It reminds me of one night stands. Or first dates...Everybody is on their best behavior .

The predator...the Punter who is only interested in serial dating and , once bored with "her", will even fuck her best friend...even worse than the fleecing bunny. He doesn't give two shits about the emotional ripple effects.

And then the real deal DOES exist.

There is that man and there is that woman who are emotionally mature, communicate openly the intent should there be a feeling that stirs deeper than the loins and coital satisfaction and, will make the best of it.

Rose tinted glasses among men and women in the adult world will have the cynics share their "been there, done that" failure as i am sure they have many a failed dating, engagement or marriage to share too.

Ps. Serial dating aint dating as acquaintanceship ain't friendship.

Huge HUGE responsibility comes. with both .

Make sure you WANT TO DATE...and pay the price no matter what it is or may be. No different to any relationship in society

RB.

Had a relationship with a "MG" couple of years ago, thought I could take her out of the industry, but they always keep that phone with all her clients number and will always have some regulars that they will see behind your back. So no I will not date a MG/WG

No because You Pay more as a boyfriend than a punter

Read to explain: www.esa.co.za/forum/thread.php

It's better to just pay her for the girlfriend experience, don't you think?

If you're having trouble finding love out there, why would you come look for it on ESA? It sounds like you're asking for trouble.

What's worse is that the service providers always bear the brunt of "they are not good people and just looking to empty your wallet". Punters are as equally f****d up.

I'm here to fulfil fantasies, not look for love.

Expensive. Real real expensive. It's transactional to begin with.

Chasing the feeling requires constant top ups.

Not worth it. Better than a regular set punt for sure.

But if it's companionship you want, rather go the normal route. In the long run, there is actually an investment of time and resources.

There is like a 4% success rate. Put everything into something that will fade eventually.

I put like over a year into it. Always said, I would do it for one month more because enjoyed it. Then the next month and the next month. Until you have wasted a whole year to be in 96% Chance fail.

Anyway, back on the punting trail. Had some fun tonight. No WhatsApp's after. lol.

On 2026-01-26 19:53:41 R2D4 said:
No, I cant think of any pros besides that she might be better at sex than a non-WG.

Is that the lesson you learned after getting taken for 90k by the hooker that moved in with you?

On 2026-01-27 06:13:22 R2D4 said:
On 2026-01-26 23:01:21 SneakyOctopuss said: On 2026-01-26 19:53:41

Is that the lesson you learned after getting taken for 90k by the hooker that moved in with you?

No , it was the lesson i learned after i fucked your mum in the ass and she gave birth to you.

Oof