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Posted: 2023-04-12 14:29:19

On 2023-04-12 11:52:05 Brakenjan69 said:
Just read Sabrina's post she put up now...

Guess she had to hang up the dirty laundry on the forum to get ready for the backlash from her now former ex- before things get even more nasty. That can not have been an easy decision - putting up personal issues out in the open like that.



I get the reason for your post, but since you've mentioned me I'm going to respond as I have on Sabrina's we broke up post.

There's no nasty backlash from me - you have absolutely no idea of how we lived together the past 8 months and what living with her is like.

She's referred to me as 'the sucker that paid for her tits', and tummy tuck - I think that says a lot about her real character. Don't be the next sucker!


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Posted: 2023-04-12 15:39:57

On 2023-04-12 14:29:19 Prometheus1.0 said:

I get the reason for your post, but since you've mentioned me I'm going to respond as I have on Sabrina's we broke up post.

There's no nasty backlash from me - you have absolutely no idea of how we lived together the past 8 months and what living with her is like.
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I never mentioned you directly nor did she(Im sure 99.999% of people didnt know/care or want to know/care that "Prometheus XYZ" was her bf, now ex)

In that reply..I made an "assumption" that once the dirty laundry would be aired...there would be backlash...

And as sure as the sun rises and sets-->

["There are 2 sides to every story...

Sabrina - please go back and read all the good things you wrote about us on the forum, stop with the one-sided allegations, and you know who to go speak to for help.

I'm not going to defend myself endlessly here - some of you know the real Sabrina, have worked with her, may have also fought with her, and have received DMs from her.
Some of you know me - my former profile was doctorP - Sabrina deleted that profile, but my reviews and comments are still there. Make up your own mind on what's really happened.

I wish you all the best Sabrina - I know at least I'm in a happier space today without the past two months of toxic fighting and hope you are too."] --> decent reply!

You started off civil in that reply post(I guess), but now it seems the waters have muddied..so guess my assumption as to how events would have transpired have come true!

My thread was supposed to branch off in another direction(as alot of wgs seems to have similar probs), you sir, have now linked the two together.

Sorry bud, but you dragged yourself into this thread.
[From my side, maybe i shouldnt have used her name from the her thread, but it is her post what got me thinking/recollecting about the issue in general...so cant really change that!]

As threads have no rules...i guess anything is fair game(within ESA rules), so yeah appreciate your reply.

As for me not having any idea what you've "specifically" gone through..your half right..but ive dated and had a relationship with a few wgs(in my younger days)..And I KNOW PERSONALLY things can get ugly fast for a whole lot of reasons.. and hence the age old mantra --> Dont Date a WG/ get in a relationship,etc...blah blah

I actually still see a wg every now and again,that i've dated before( we argued..split...didnt speak for a year) But now..we are basically fuck buddies!! so yeah..not all is doom and gloom mate!Sorry you guys have split...but I dont know what else to say on that point.

But yeah ..tis life, shit happens...and will happen again.
Sometimes you win sometimes you lose.You aint the first and wont be the last!

Chin up and carry on! The sun will shine abother day!

P.S Thank goodness there is a website where you can log in, browse whats on offer...make a booking, take out your frustratuons and forget about life's injustices...even if just for an hour or two!!

You'll be fine bud,Happy punting!!
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Posted: 2023-04-12 15:59:43

To be fair Brakenjan - from how you started the post it did seem as if you were directly referring to Prometheus, even if it was not your intent.
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Posted: 2023-04-12 16:25:41

On 2023-04-12 15:59:43 YourChunkyFunkiness said:
To be fair Brakenjan - from how you started the post it did seem as if you were directly referring to Prometheus, even if it was not your intent.



Hey your Chunky Funkiness!(what a cool handle!!)

Yeah....Yeah....Yeah...that thread had 13 "paragraphs/statements"... the first 2 referred to Sabrina's thread and backlash...

Quick math would mean some peeps got #triggered at the outset...while most would have continued reading like an engrossed puppy watching a butterfly in the garden..and came to a rather different conclussion...

The 3rd paragraph...which starts with.."Why am I posting this..",should have informed even the most ocd of 5 year olds that the thread was going in a different direction.

However...

Sometimes i forget our education system is to blame for the vast majority of readers who cant read very good and understand principles like context and other literary devices.

Sadly this also means..some of our ESA brethern cant read for shit!(In particular i suspect them of the "dick pic sending" variety are to blame) aka the usual suspects.

Not a problem, happy to clarify where needed.

Stay Funky Mr Chunky! Happy Punting!!
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Posted: 2023-04-12 20:42:12

On 2023-04-12 14:29:19 Prometheus1.0 said:
On 2023-04-12 11:52:05 Brakenjan69 said: Just read Sabrina's post she put up now...

Guess she had to hang up the dirty laundry on the forum to get ready for the backlash from her now former ex- before things get even more nasty. That can not have been an easy decision - putting up personal issues out in the open like that.


I get the reason for your post, but since you've mentioned me I'm going to respond as I have on Sabrina's we broke up post.

There's no nasty backlash from me - you have absolutely no idea of how we lived together the past 8 months and what living with her is like.

She's referred to me as 'the sucker that paid for her tits', and tummy tuck - I think that says a lot about her real character. Don't be the next sucker!



You both made a conscious decision to live together. Whether it was pleasant or not, you both chose to stay...until now.
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Posted: 2023-04-13 07:40:10

On 2023-04-12 12:18:50 Raymond Reddington said:
Let me get this right. You booked a SP, you paid her money. You consoled her, provided her a shoulder to cry on, had a chat, then massaged her instead?

Was she charging you a good rate for that? Did you tip her?



As a SP who has been around since the news paper days I am speaking from Experience while most of us have all had our fare share of stalkers and wake jobs no shows wankers etc... it's fair to say it comes with the territory and if the lady can't deal with it she's in the wrong business and no I am not condoning the bad behavior from these guy's because without them the lives of sps will be easier.

However with that said someone mentioned we can take a break and deactivate our adds and still get good money at the end of the moment so of that person is in such a space that she can't have other clients in her space and provided the services which were sold over the phone the should deactivate their adds for a while until they are in a frame of mind to do so.

Lesser service for mental issues should not be acceptable deactivate take a break and regenerate the soul.

One can't give from a empty cup and you can't nurture someone when you yourself need to be nurtured.

Not fair to the punter paying.

Their time should be there's.
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Posted: 2023-04-13 08:59:43
Edited: 2023-04-13 09:04:16

On 2023-04-12 14:29:10 Sabrina said:
On 2023-04-12 12:18:50

The guy is a real man, I take my hat off to him. We are also human, and putting your dick in a vulnerable woman (whether you pay or not), is insensitive and 'rapey'.



It is as much rapey as it is taking someone's money when you didn't provide the service they payed for is 'fraudy'.
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Posted: 2023-04-13 09:03:20

On 2023-04-12 16:25:41 Brakenjan69 said:
On 2023-04-12 15:59:43
Sadly this also means..some of our ESA brethern cant read for shit!(In particular i suspect them of the "dick pic sending" variety are to blame) aka the usual suspects.

Not a problem, happy to clarify where needed.

Stay Funky Mr Chunky! Happy Punting!!



Please!!! Us illiterate folks dont send dick pics to SP's. That is reserved for Facebook friends.

Stay classy Brackenjan.
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Posted: 2023-04-13 09:42:16

This site is no place for love. I had a Brief interaction recently with a well known pta sp that had a similar thread not to long ago. I just realised how damaging this industry can be mentality for some of the girls. I actually felt sorry her. She didn't know I knew of a said forum thread about her while I was talking to her as she is not advertising currently and working at a venue I frequent. I could see why guys get infatuated with her. In this industry need to keep it business only don't share to much and don't catch feelings.
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Posted: 2023-04-13 11:37:13

Also scary thing about romantic relationships ending ugly is your anxiety will shoot through the roof, because you're easily accessible you never know who's on the other side of the phone or if you're walking into a trap set up by a crazy ex, some of these guys get freakishly obsessed. This specific one would stalk my profile and could even recite my reviews lol. Wasn't funny at the time though. After that, I vowed to never ever get too close to a punter.

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