Dear Ladies and Gentlemen.

The advertisers are welcome to send their IDs to the ESA email or WhatsApp for age verification. Ladies, please include your reference number.

We will state on the profile that their age has been verified by ESA with the data of verification.

Please note that this is not compulsory and we will not be forcing the advertisers to show us their IDs

@Gentlemen, please understand, as your privacy is important to you so is the advertiser's privacy important to them.

We would suggest asking the advertiser when communicating with them if their age is accurate.

Regards
ESA Support

On 2022-07-22 16:08:51 ESA Forum Admin said:
orakle has been banned from the forum for freeloading.

Orakle ?

I've seen one that has been 22 years of age for the last 22 years...

The problem with age verification is that some advertisers will leave this platform for another that does not require age verification....

It could be made optional with a statement "verified" next to the number, but then it is easy to see which ones deceive....

I prefer to have the truth. I'm sure there are many girls that I have not booked because their advertised age was TOO YOUNG. I will not book a 22 year old, but 26 or above is OK. Which means SP's 26 years old and above advertising as below 26 miss out.

When you visit an SP you definitely not going to check her ID to verify her age. Most of the time the age advertised is not the exact age of the SP and since putting the exact age is not mandatory you probably not going to know....

On 2022-07-22 16:22:23 Johnny English said:
On 2022-07-22 16:08:51 ESA Forum Admin said: orakle has been banned from the forum for freeloading.


Orakle ?

Apologies wrong thread.

www.esa.co.za/forum/thread.php

I have to agree with ESA here... This is not the first thread i see about this topic so i thought maybe i can share my thoughts about it on this one LOL...

Personally i have no issue and i actually contacted ESA office the day after my birthday last year to ask them to change my age to 45 because i am not 44 anymore and i will do so again this year. I will even show my ID if asked.
But for some ladies advertising here its really a privacy issue. Some has children and families that may not know what they do to make ends meet. It can be any reason. The same goes for why some ladies dont show their faces.
As much as all the punters has a right to privacy so does every lady on here.

Yes i know it must be a dissapointment when you arrive at the lady and she is 10 or 20 years older than stated on her profile, but think about it... Age might not be the only dissapointment. There might be other things about her that is misleading on her profile. She might be using drugs. Or alcohol. Or she might look classy and sexy in the photos but then opens the door for you in a tracksuit and barefoot! I dont think those things might be as easy to verify as the age....

So yes ESA cant force anyone to show an ID but i agree that it might be helpful if the ages change automatically every year. At least then, even if a lady gave the wrong age when when she joins, she will age yearly!

So gents, unfortunately there will always be some out there that would mislead you intentionally, but there are those out there that tries to keep their profiles as true as possible to the real thing as well.
Just be carefull and communicate!

A couple of years ago esa posted a Birthday post on a lady's birthday. I think Ive asked if this was just for the ones they care about and esa said no....everyone who send proof of ID gets such a message.

That lasted for about a month.

That wouldve been a method to know you can trust advertised ages

What difference does someone's stated age make?
I've seen 30 yr Olds that look 50,and visa versa. So even a verified stated age is pointless unless it's worded like "25 but actually looks 40",and thats just silly

Then if it's just a matter of principle, or "honesty", remember that this is a world of fantasy.

Long story short look at her photos, not her age. If she attracts you, then you have a match

It is a common phenomenon that most ladies do not feel comfortable to reveal their real ages and it is not limited to the purple pages only.

On ESA, and if they are completely honest, it seems that stating a younger age on their profile carries more appeal to more customers. The notion that it is due to privacy can be considered true if ladies are also comfortable to advertise themselves as a few years older, instead of subtracting a few generous years.

It is what it is, boys. This is a fantasy world and you are being sold a fantasy.

My 2 cents here. Yes, the images do reflect an apparent physical age, but the age is not always about the physical. I want some connection, even the simplest, and age provides that starting point of mature conversation.
I would not book a 25 year old, the same way I would unlikely book a 50 year old.