On 2021-06-30 14:41:04 Bbw Nadia said:
Honestly, whatever you can imagine, thats how we landed here. I don't like talking about it. Probably cos I think my story is way too boring. Its nowhere near the story of being kicked out, falling pregnant, being on drugs and all the drama people believe. People wanna believe we all have that wild story and in my experience very few ladies have the dramatic account that people expect..... kinda like guys think we fuck all day, watch porn all day, only have sexworkers for friends, only wear lingerie and tight fitting minis.
When guys ask I usually make up the story as I go along. I am very identifiable by my story. Thats why I don't tell it cos mine is a bit different.... and boring by all accounts
Edit- if we tell.our true stories and its not a sad, sordid story, nobody believes us anyway.

We are strong, beautiful with enough love and care. Hugs to you :)

Me? Wot you talking about man...I love my job. Yea just waiting for those dumb responses to kick in.

Most are here for money obviously, even if they tell you they really love it, they would be doing it for free then.

On 2021-06-30 14:49:07 IOverflow said:
It was just out of interest from my side. I always thought they made a lot of money, but after being in this forum for some time, there's a bit of people which are not coping to pay their bills.

I thought a job in corporate you could probably get around 20 to 30k on average. And people who charge 1.5k per hour to get to 30k, you have to suck 20 dicks to get there... I would not suck 20 dicks to only get 30k....

I doubt the rate is R20k to R30k pm in the corporate world. Teachers for instance, are below R20k pm. That is at least 4yr post matric education.

I think, without a degree, you probably looking at R10-R15k pm...Jip, that is terrible. Try renting a house, pay a car and still have money for food and clothes...

And that is why once here, it is difficult to go back.

On 2021-06-30 15:03:08 Vrik said:
On 2021-06-30 14:49:07 IOverflow said: It was just out of interest from my side. I always thought they made a lot of money, but after being in this forum for some time, there's a bit of people which are not coping to pay their bills.

I thought a job in corporate you could probably get around 20 to 30k on average. And people who charge 1.5k per hour to get to 30k, you have to suck 20 dicks to get there... I would not suck 20 dicks to only get 30k....

I doubt the rate is R20k to R30k pm in the corporate world. Teachers for instance, are below R20k pm. That is at least 4yr post matric education.

I think, without a degree, you probably looking at R10-R15k pm...Jip, that is terrible. Try renting a house, pay a car and still have money for food and clothes...

And that is why once here, it is difficult to go back.

Very well said

I'm thinking that the often used- I want sex all the time- response is just a marketing tool. Helps sell the fantasy . And I'm sure many guys actually believe it.

For me it was actually quite a spur of the moment thing.

Retrenched because of covid, money from savings ran out, no jobs and with no car the only industry I have experience in is closed to me.

Its not something I ever thought of doing even for a second, but as soon as I thought about it, I went for it.

The main driving force for me honestly? Yes it is money.
Not in a shallow, gold digging kinda way, in a way that I want to pay off my debt, survive and be able to get back to a place where I am financially stable.

An unexpected thing that is keeping me here though, is the people I meet. I have learnt and gained so much already and hopefully I will be able to figure out my next steps due to some of the advice and knowledge that some share so generously.

The girls are here to make money to survive and build a better future for themselves and perhaps support family and kids as well. Do they love what they do in a few cases yes but most don't. Otherwise they would do it for free. To many guy's think they love it you see it in the reviews sometimes. Some punters also think that these girls are crazy about sex and are literally wanting it all the time lol. The truth is harsh sometimes and punters don't want to hear it sadly and hence they live in this fantasy world that they are all that lol

This job might not require a matric or pist matric qualification, but by no means us it an eady job to do.

To allow a complete stranger into your personal space and be intemate must take a lot of courage.

Hats of to these brave ladies, thats prepare to sacrifice so much to be there for our pleasure.

I will be an SP partime soon once COVID ends catering to women strictly and its because I have a permanent erection.

So my reason is simply because Im lekker jags.

SuperFuck

On 2021-06-30 14:28:48 IOverflow said:
I would like for someone to break my general perception on why a sp would want to be in this industry.

90% - money for drugs
9% - money for stuff other than drugs
0.9% - because the baby Jesus told them to in a fever dream
0.1% - because they like fucking