@Meg, exactly how I was reading the situation!

Longjon Glad someone understand how this looks to me> Im a woman and i know a lot of ladies even WG that could take you for a fool. Like i say... live by the sword, die by the sword. Atleast with us (wg) its fun time and you can switch off as soon as you walk out my doore. Okey just fpr some! But at work? Isnt it a bit of n step away from stupid? Who's got more to loose? You or her? How ever this plays out, i hope it was worth the fantasy. Oh and the 10k you wont get back.

I really hope im wrong on this one.

Lol Meg you and Valentina are so hot I could easily have spent the 10k on either of you and landed up with a happy happy experience and a massive smile on my face :)

But this journey which has made me semi famous on ESA - lol - is not about money.
It's about the seduction , the taste of forbidden fruit.
As I've stated I don't think she will ever make love as well as either of you two - but it's a quest I am determined to discover.

Also I've probably given the wrong impression about hottie spending tons of money on hair and nails.
Her situation was that due to the harsh loans she had taken out she had absolutely no money to do her normal monthly things. I know many woman who do their nails and hair on payday.
It's one of the perks of working -lol like guys treating themselves to a punt :)
She is blonde but not stupid :)

Update for those following -

Been down in Durban for business past 2 days - got back to the office yesterday afternoon.
Hottie was looking really hot - lol they were all expecting me back so I felt flattered she dressed up .

Asked her if she missed me -blush blush
She said everybody did lol
Anyway I sent her a MSG to say she looks very sexy-
She replied I'm naughty but she's loving the compliments.

She again asked if I'm going to Fridays drinks .
I said I'm very keen if she's going.
She said she's definitely not missing it for the world - lol

I know I know you guys' think she's playing me .
I definitely feel a connection developing ..

Can't wait for tomorrow ....

@rickylick, from your last post I think you are in with a shot, however you have got to strike tomorrow, if you are just going to be flirting with her at drinks and still taking it slow, I think it will be an opportunity missed. You've got to up it a level tomorrow and show her that you are serious and it needs to start happening now. If she brushes you off tomorrow with flirty comments of how naughty you are then she's never going to give it up and will be stringing you along until kingdom comes.

By the way I agree 100% with Meg and others, you won't see the money again.

Ricky reminds me of myself a few years back, Mr Nice Guy, the gentleman, which ultimately leads to hot ladies treating you like a doormat, getting loans from you and getting fucked by the doos of the office at Friday night drinks. Since I've discovered that by asking straight out, clear precise questions, no ambiguity, I either walk away with my tail between my legs and richer for it , or getting a nice slow screw and some naughty office tricks. My money's on Ricky getting screwed on Friday night, getting screwed not getting a screw. Been there , done that.

Ricky holding thumbs for u and hope u get your desired result totally understand your forbidden fruit thought its more the thought that makes the seduction or attempted seduction more exciting with a hint of danger attached.

I'm an occasional punter in the casinos,last time I did bit of money on blackjack table I sacrificed the house rules in favour of my hunch.
My instincts have got me out of sticky situations a lot more than I can remember.
If I have to make a call here...."Come saturday morning make sure you log on because our ever randy rickylick will have for us a full blow by blow account of the steamiest bits of his escapades with Ms Hottie".
I'm putting my top dollar come Friday night ricky is getting laid!!!!!

ahh thank you Ricky. Let me remind you that im also a normal person outside this job. So I think outside the box to. You wouldn't know what I do for a living unless I told you. Now here comes the fun part. I get hit on daily, and listen to every man's remarks(sometimes even when I thought im use to everything, there comes a WTF at the end off that conversation) makes me think....how shallow can this dude be? Then asking for money from someone I don't know....And he said yes? Play the game and eat all the shit up just because im needy.. Jis I wish I could talk to you in person. Oh and if you do score, its going to be a once off because she borrow money from you. Hmm unless youre I hoti in bed and she likes it? Keep us updated... would like to know the outcome off this story. Perhaps something will come up by tomorrow and she cant make it again...how convenient. And if all els fail we are still here for you lol.

Yeah Ricky we are here for you, like that fucked up dysfunctional family member wanking in the cupboard, that no one wants to talk about, we are here to laugh at your failures and bathe in your success.. God speed to morrow and may the wors39 be with you... Teach that hottie about unsecured debt the hard way..