Edited: 2022-11-23 10:08:10
On 2022-11-23 09:41:11 Sylvia said:
JP sorry this happened and sorry for all the issues and ill health you have. Really not nice. My 2 cents worth. as much you say you trusted her i think that given so much out and ecpecting her to book guest house well she got that 3 in hand and she was not gonna book guest house, i think you should have shopped around and booked one then invited her over. Of course after arranging it and she was gonna show up. If she didnt then you could have organised another lady to have visited beings you already paid the guest house, and im sure it was not 3g? Sorry for what you went through. ugly. s
Thanks for your kind message.
I offered several times to arrange the guesthouse/hotel, but her exact words were "No it's okay, I will do it" ( I still have my message offering and her response too) which I was fine with mostly because she knows pretoria a lot better than I do, so I might cock it up and book us into a dodgy area. Also I have done overnighter's with her in the past and usually we go out for a drink/meal early on so she'd be able book us near to the places that she'd like to go - I wouldn't have a clue.
And in retrospect what you say makes sense but at the time I did not for a second think that I might need to organise another lady.
And just to be clear the 3k wasn't just for the accommodation.
Please read.
I've been waiting like half a year for an explanation, and you guys are ready to convict after one day of silence
On 2022-11-22 13:13:01 JP82 said:
I really didn't want to write this, but I've tried everything I can, over several months, to resolve the issue and haven't been successful so I guess it's time to accept that it just is what it is.
I am also posting this on her profile.
I didn't want to write it, because the guilty party is one of my all-time favourites and I have really enjoyed getting to know her and spending time with her, and I have been seeing her for several years now. (Active ad: www.esa.co.za/escorts/viewEscort.php )
But the truth of the matter is that she has now robbed me.
So a while ago I was visiting this lady fairly frequently -- probably 4 or 5 times over two or three weeks (including a few times where I drove from Joburg through to PTA only to be stood up, which is not entirely unusual for her). At the time I was dealing with some issues (both health and other) and a lot of the bookings were just going for a drink or having a chat (i.e. nothing physical). For these bookings Kate frequently gave a discount in terms of which I just had to cover the cost of the room. I protested this (because if she wasn't seeing me she would be able to see another client and I didn't want her losing out on my account) but she insisted.
So anyway, as with many I found that an hour with her was just not enough, so arranged for an all-nighter. She quoted me a price and requested a R3000 upfront payment and she would book a guest house. I sent the R3000 by e-wallet.
I know what you are all going to say about upfront payments but I had no second thoughts about doing so -- I have known her for years and have even lent her money in the past when her wallet/cards where stolen and she needed cash and she paid me back literally within days. I really did trust her.
On the day that the all-nighter was supposed to take place she sent me a message/ voice note saying that she had just got out of a booking and would be looking for a guest house now and would send me the details. That was the last I heard from her. I happily headed through to Pretoria and went to a coffee shop to wait for the details. And boy did I wait. And wait. And wait. No response to messages. No answer to calls etc. Eventually I accepted what had just happened and headed home.
I have tried to get hold of her frequently since then, mostly unsuccessfully. On one occasion she answered, and we had a bit of a tense chat. I asked her what happened. Her first response was "I don't know" which is not ideal. Then she said that the R3000 wasn't for the all nighter but was because of the discounts she had given me. Which would be odd because that's not AT ALL what she said when she asked for the R3000 -- it was definitely an "upfront payment" (her words) for the overnighter, ( I still have the messages if people want to see the receipts) so if she was recouping the discounts it was done under false pretenses and besides how do you give a discount and then unilaterally revoke it?
Incidentally if she had messaged me and said "I actually can't afford to give you those discounts", I would have paid in the difference -- like I said I didn't actually want them in the first place. And actually I've told her that I'd be happy to let her keep it if she'll see me again.
But here we are -- She is still not responding to messages or answering any further calls and I'm out R3000.
Been watching this:
Jp82 seems to be decent his complaint is reasonable and justified.
Arwhen mmm seems to have changed tune
Sage gives good wise advice (well done)
While all that glitters is not gold Kate by keeping quite seems guilty. She placed a response to provide feedback but notthing.mmm!
The past encounters and discounts do not hold water. She gave a price asked for a deposit to deliver a service on a specific day and did not deliver or offer any additional way of resolving. Shame Kate what a pitty.
Kate could have said yes I failed to deliver but come over for a blowjob? And we even.
On 2022-11-23 10:22:27 Kate said:
Like I've previously said, once I have all of my WhatsApp trail information I will revert back and confirm my side of the story.
Please read.
Is that what you told him a year ago in which time you could have just honoured the appointment and not have had any of this?
N4P
I dont usually get involved with stuff like this but it seems feelings are involved here that went sour.
All i am saying is cut your losses and move on.
Goodluck to all involved and Kate will still remain on my favourites...
On 2022-11-23 10:22:27 Kate said:
Like I've previously said, once I have all of my WhatsApp trail information I will revert back and confirm my side of the story.
Please read.
Sorry - this doesn't take that long. WhatsApp's can be easily emailed to yourself and read to clarify certain facts.
The most disconcerting complaint from JP is that Kate blocked at least two of his punting sims and refused to discuss before he decided to resort to the forum. This is a sign of guilt if ever there was one! If both parties had communicated like adults over the previous six months or so, this blow up would not have occurred and it seems only one party was the stumbling block to that.
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