I suppose the more important question is, would you date a woman, since most MG/WGs are women...

Can't imagine her occupation would make much of a difference ...

On 2026-02-05 00:11:07 J_J said:
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Can't imagine her occupation would make much of a difference ...

I truly hope you're joking right now. Would you still date a woman if you found out she was a hardcore pornstar? Like Lana Rhoades type pornstar. I guarantee it's a no

On 2026-02-04 22:48:09 Sir Shadow Hefner said:
I've had a few WG girlfriends over the years and they're also just normal girls. Two things I've noticed is that the sex quickly becomes vanilla and it's not like when you were client. Secondly, money at some point always becomes an issue.

I'll be honest and say that for me it has less to do with the lady when it comes to sex. Even if I were to meet a MG/WG that I say I'd date who was nymphomaniac, the sex would become vanilla because I like variety and I would make it vanilla because of the boredom of eating the "same plate each night".

On 2026-02-04 22:48:09 Sir Shadow Hefner said:
I've had a few WG girlfriends over the years and they're also just normal girls. Two things I've noticed is that the sex quickly becomes vanilla and it's not like when you were client. Secondly, money at some point always becomes an issue.

I can relate to what you're saying, Sir Hef - I've experienced much the same. Once the relationship shifts from client to partner, priorities change. Appointments are no longer respected, communication becomes distant, and the intimacy fades. The focus stays on their clients, yet financial support is still expected from you.

What's difficult is that you're often given the cold shoulder - messages go unanswered, plans fall through and you only seem to matter again when they're in desperate need of help. By then, the dynamic feels one-sided and transactional. It's like neglecting the very person who's been consistently there for them.

Despite genuinely trying your best, there's little appreciation in return - just empty promises, excuses and explanations for why they can't see you. Over time, the lack of kindness and respect wears you down. It's disappointing, hurtful and ultimately draining, especially when you've invested emotionally and financially, only to be pushed to your limits.

So dating or even trying to be close friends with a MG or WG just doesn't work. The boundaries blur, priorities clash and the dynamic often becomes unbalanced. What starts with good intentions slowly turns into frustration on both sides.

Unless you're dealing with an SP who is making big bank monthly, I would suggest to refrain.

As mentioned before, money will always be a topic of discussion, whether you're just friends or you're dating. You'll hear about her not having a client all week and she hasn't eaten yet. Or her pet needs a vet. Something always comes up.

One SP told me about her boyfriend who wanted sex after she had an outcall. She was frustrated but I understood the man. Having a girlfriend and not having access to sex when you want it defeats the purpose.

Double post, askies

On 2026-02-05 00:55:30 Coochie.Pounder1 said:
On 2026-02-05 00:11:07 J_J said: ...

Can't imagine her occupation would make much of a difference ... I truly hope you're joking right now. Would you still date a woman if you found out she was a hardcore pornstar? Like Lana Rhoades type pornstar. I guarantee it's a no

Then you'd be wrong.

On 2026-02-05 11:19:48 YourChunkyFunkiness said:


One SP told me about her boyfriend who wanted sex after she had an outcall. She was frustrated but I understood the man. Having a girlfriend and not having access to sex when you want it defeats the purpose.

If that is your definition of girlfriend, then I don't think you should date at all ...

On 2026-02-05 10:21:09 Vanta said:



I can relate to what you're saying, Sir Hef - I've experienced much the same. Once the relationship shifts from client to partner, priorities change. Appointments are no longer respected, communication becomes distant, and the intimacy fades. The focus stays on their clients, yet financial support is still expected from you.

That sounds like marriage, or just life in general ...

Sounds like you want a sex worker exclusively for your self, as opposed to a partner, which would be the purpose of dating ...

On 2026-02-05 17:58:16 J_J said:
On 2026-02-05 10:21:09 Vanta said:


I can relate to what you're saying, Sir Hef - I've experienced much the same. Once the relationship shifts from client to partner, priorities change. Appointments are no longer respected, communication becomes distant, and the intimacy fades. The focus stays on their clients, yet financial support is still expected from you.



That sounds like marriage, or just life in general ...

Sounds like you want a sex worker exclusively for your self, as opposed to a partner, which would be the purpose of dating ...

@J_J, I think you may be missing the distinction I'm making. I'm not talking about wanting exclusivity or ownership - that's not realistic nor the point. I'm talking about clarity of roles and expectations.

When someone actively benefits from a client dynamic, financially and emotionally - but then selectively switches to a "partner" framing only when accountability, time, or effort is required, it creates imbalance. Dating implies mutual investment; a client relationship implies professionalism and consistency.

The issue isn't sex work versus dating - it's when boundaries blur in a way that favours one side while disadvantaging the other. That's not "just life" or marriage; that's misaligned expectations.