The biggest ask when making an appointment with me, is to leave all expectations on the other side of the door, allow me to settle your shyness or nerves...and don't hesitate to surrender to what shall be ours.

Communication is PARAMOUNT.

NO QUESTION IS STUPID NOR OUT OF ORDER...some may irk my sensibilities BUT, this IS the adult world and best to ask or request...the worst that can happen is that i shall say ....no.

The most important is

PERSONAL AND ORAL HYGIENE IS PARAMOUNT

as is

RESPECT.

I am kinky....but a "vanilla" sort of kinkster.

LOVE erotica.

Passionate.

Sensual.

Sexsensual.....and unapologetic who i enjoy and how i enjoy in my pleasuredrome.

Labels. People understand them differently and have different expectations ..especially with all the porn that is posted .



And thus....I stay away from labels and talk about what shall take place in our time.

Sooooo.....


Come be part of my World....and let us experience each other.

Your

RB.

Another calendar year.

To be filled with experiences and NOT "labels".

I AM into energies, connection....surrender.


How quickly it knows to pass us by and thus don't be shy to peruse, engage in your curiosity, ask questions

And, let's take it from there.

I am not into pain, fully understand that this is the adult world with many many different fantasies, fetishes and kinks.

No question is stupid to ask. I may feel uneasy about it, but all that shall happen is that you may get a "No. Unfortunately it is not within my services offered. All the best in your search."

Here I am not talking about deviant behavior that can be harmful and pose as a danger to society on the whole.

We are adults , agreeing and consenting in All that shall be ours behind closed doors.

Enjoy my writes and see YOU soon!!!


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RB.

Aaaah!

There is no doubt as to what defines my world when it comes to YOU.

Sensuality.
Sexuality.
That rush where logic takes second seat because the wanton lusty need is to be pleasured.

It is not about condomising to just fuck , trying to reenact porn, pretended moans and forced arching. That cockworship scripted. It is not about engaging in acts of pleasure to fleece the wallet....

It is about enchanting you. Looking into your eyes and the energies shared in that look, the spirit, kne innermost being reaching out....touched... the need of each other.

Your surrender to my way...leading, seductive and last on the list, even at times nit even considered, would be the coital drive.

It is about you wanting me to possess you in my kama sutra erotic ways and reawaken the very deepest sensual part of YOU.

I am driven by erotica.
Sensuality.
Flirtation.
Foreplay.


The art of being lovers....

Come.

Come be a part of all I am.


Russian Bridgitte I AM.


RB.

To repeat under this thread....


As much as i am a firm believer of the positive ripple effects of mind and body wellness when it comes to all aspects of ones life

...so much too I am a believer of embracing those sensual , sexual needs and finding pleasure and satisfaction .

It is NOT about condoning any sexual or sensual activities society may deem taboo.
It is about the practice of discretion in a controlled and safe environment with no ripple effects or overthinking.

It is about satisfying a need without disrupting or affecting the rest of ones "life".

A solution of some sort.

And should you choose to embrace this world of sexsensual pleasures, always to know the risks from being "found out" to falling "in love" to the importance of consistent practiced protective measures.

There is no judgement nor condoning in my space.

It is

SIMPLY

YOU

And

ME....

On equal footing enjoying each other, consented and agreed upon .

To make you walk away and feel like the king u are and embrace the rest of all else that defines you, content and feeling that little bit lighter.

Come.

Come be mine for a little while in your day.

:)

RB.

COMMUNICATION.

When you receive my details and pricing...

It reads like a story.

That is me.

You won't get a itemized offering.

And because of that...

READ
COMMUNICATE..
ASK /QUESTION.

and lets make sure YOU experience much of what you desire to happen in my pleasuredrome.

You see, some like it like this and, some like it like that, and some like it simple, and some love reveling in the light adventurous kinks I offer.

I am NOT into pain...no bdsm.

I AM driven by sensual seduction.

I AM defined by all things erotic.

I AM expressive and nothing is done without passion, complete surrender to the moment, engaged and sincere.

I don't care to pretend. I dont do what I don't enjoy

And

YOU

I enjoy!

Yep. I am tall. I am VERY woman. I love every part of me. I love my mind because it is a magic kaleidoscopic space of wonders.

YOU are part of it....always...and we shall play, tease and please. Whatever that "mutual" shall be, shall be ours agreed upon and embraced wholeheartedly.

Foreplay...YES.

So.

Massage?... With a sexsensual difference and....being one of the best medical sport massage therapists out there....

Is it not the best of many worlds.

See you soon my lovely gorgeous sexy horny gents.

RB.

Just reading the forum and enjoying the informative conversations and shares the punters are posting...it definitely is about the time booked, being an experience.

What's that experience?

Well.

Isn't it upto you, dear punters.

Communicate and embrace without creating scenarios and building impossible expectations.



And here is another, that shall be a new addition to my offerings.

The fleshlight experience.

Many MANY men are not into sex or pornstar type of fucks.

Many love that sensual "sexsensaul" enjoyment of being played with , teased and edged.

That is what my fleshlight experience is going to aim for.

Another experience in my pleasuredrome, RB's love of erotica and imagination embraced to have you walk away feeling...

"Damn! That was different. " and smiling, the mind still lost to the magic of what can happen in the most intimate of ways.

I look fwd to you as I do to those gents wanting to experience sounding, prostate play, pegging.

It aint emasculating nor questions your preferences.

To reiterate.

I do NOTHING BUT NOTHING that i don't derive huge pleasure from agreed upon and with mutual consent.

...even the very conservative "loving" of YOU.

"Missionary" or "Kama Sutra" like sensexuality is mind-blowing.


See you soon.

RB.

Hey hey my beautiful men.

I always marvel, and that never fades nor diminishes, at the intimacy that exists between consenting adults in the sensual space.

A "menu" is nothing more than that and comes, of course, with a price tag.

What makes that "menu and price tag" near priceless is the connect and sincerity of what takes place in a share like that.

I love my foreplay...my sort of foreplay is specific to me and some may find it strange or maybe even dominant.

I love the surrender to the moment.

If a kiss is to be had, a caress most sexsensual, a taste or nibble or suck making one groan and growl with pleasure, a kink agreed upon and...whatever else shall be, that drive the blood pressure up and the heartbeat pund like crazy....I do it with YOU and ME in mind.

Honest, with integrity and sincere .

Unapologetic.

I look fwd to YOU being part of my World, my imagination and the pleasure of being seen and heard... that connect .

Yes.

We SHALL connect. It is NOT a service , it is a RB love affair.

Yours

Russian Bridgitte.

Again.

It is near impossible not to enjoy every man that walks across my doorstep.

I am the specials sort. I love the space I occupy. BUT don't rush me and grab at me and prod me....I SHALL slow you down. I SHALL stop you. I SHALL lead you.

I will tell you little tales about how I shall pleasure your cock and balls, I will kiss you gently...softly.

I will rub myself up close like the lover you want me to be, which , I am.

YOU.

You make me tick. You make my juices flow. My massage the start of much more your body shall yearn for.

I want you to caress me slowly , feel that softness with your fingertips, the palm of your hand cupping the most intimate part of what makes me woman... to enjoy the way I stroke you...edge you.


I am me , very me ....no hiding or pretending. To respect this space of adult naughtiness for what it is and have very clear boundaries as to what is allowed and not.

Which , I know, suits my men who walk across my doorstep.

PERFECT.

I look fwd to you and you and ...YOU.

My men.


RB.

Okay.

Here goes.

So when u request my details etc....it is written in a story form.
Not like a checklist u would write when going to a supermaket.

It has been like that from day one when i started in the sensual space in 2015.

THAT is why I say MY offerings ARE an experience .

Of course the so called basics expected in a sensual massage session is a given.


I always stress that 50% of OUR session is YOU..

To trust and surrender.
To COMMUNICATE!

and now

.....the reason for THIS post.

What is a dinner date with me?

Minimum it lasts is between 3 - 4 hours.

A DEPOSIT is required and NON-NEGOTIABLE.

A last minute request will NOT work.

It IS about no walls,no guarded behviour or conversation to impress.
It can be very smart and a dinner out to a restaurant.
It can be casual and "stay in" and take aways.

It IS a time to be YOU. It is a time to love. Kiss...even be silent and comfortable in the quietness.
Sometimes silence knows to speak louder than a million words and the minds connect in the most magical of ways.

It is not about trying to be a boyfriend or a girlfriend or reenacting a porn scene.

It really and truly is hours where YOU and I can be YOU and I
..whatever that may be.

No matter an extrovert or introvert.

One thing I would stress....don't make it about sex only. Because if u do it defeats the purpose of those hours together.

And another...it is about letting go. Connection.

I love my dinner dates.
I learn so much and enjoy even more.
And spoils are priceless. Here I am not only referring to materialistic generosity
..here I am talking about the respect and trust I am afforded with a Gentleman.

Thank you!

RB.

So.


How does one explain an experience and not place emphasis on a label.

Yet.

The experience full of "labels" society would understand.


How does one explain "surrender" and " go with the flow" in a service orientated environment.

It starts with the self.

It starts with being sincere, honest, of clear intent, spirit and mind...when offering the "service".

It is not about impressing, reenacting, scripting or forcing.

It is a space, ones space, personal... defined by one's self.

It speaks bfr one does.

Calmness.
A quietness, a passion sensed in the welcome.

Contact.

The "service" begins to turn into an experience even bfr the agreed upon is engaged in.

Though limited by the tick tock of time...time itself knows to, all of a sudden, not matter, nor focused on and feels like an eternity of unending pleasure.

An experience is a choice.

And in this space, especially in my space

Defined by

Sensual seduction
erotic expression
Unhurried energy absorbing
fearlessness


And

Touch and kiss sooooooo soft, gentle and inviting that it would be sinful to focus on expectations and what next, instead of "going with the flow" and walking away feeling sexier than ever.

RB.