Here we are.

The search for an experience and not simply a service?

Not simply a label?

Of course!

Have a read. Enjoy this thread.

Curiosity addressed in a way that it feels most natural.

As I have said many MANY times...nothing wrong with being shy or uncertain. Very normal.

But. I promise you my pleasuredrome is the place to start and dabble in adventures new.

We discuss.
We do.

And , most definitely the idea is to have a share like lovers old.

I do care to engage you in intimacy most sincere.

Yours

RB.

This needs a mention.

I have been asked numerous times.

This is why I say I don't.

I don't do "nuru" simply because I do not use nuru gel which, in my opinion, one would need an infra structure that can be cleaned easily and quickly to be ready for following appointments. The gel knows to be messy, slippy and slidy. NOT in a bad way, that is the intention, but my space does not allow for such engagement.



Thus this post all about labels in order to address the gents that ask about "them", i mean the labeled services and offerings.

Yes I do tantric massage.
Yes I do sensual massage.
Yes I do erotic massage.
Yes I do body to body massage.
Yes I do lingam massage.

And yes...i do medical massage.

YES.
YES.
YES...

The problem here is, the personal perception of these labels and the expectation that one or the other takes place in a session and that it can't be an overall thing.

Even Nuru is no different to the body slides where oil is used...it is the gel , NURU GEL, that has given that specific massage THAT label.

And thus dear , dearest Gentlemen...

When you choose to come and share of your time with me....

AGAIN

I am not into labels.

Don't be shy to ask about them but, what I do guarantee you, is one of the best ever sexsensual massages you shall experience.

Do read this thread.

Enjoy it

And

REMEMBER...

I advertise under massage for a reason.

The sensual is my thing.
The erotic is my thing.
Play is my thing.
Massage is definitely my thing ...no matter the label

YOU are my pleasure!...and I cannot wait for YOU to come on by

Sincere and passionate is a given.

As always

Your

Russian Bridgitte.

My gorgeous delightful men.

Communication is key.

NO question is too stupid to ask. Nor a waste of time. Just don't play games, don't try make an ass of me, don't try fish for information to pass onto a "lady in waiting".


I ALWAYS give you the benefit of doubt that you ARE sincere in your communication with me...unless that 6th sense kicks in, then our communication will go "south" (someone mentioning on the forum about things going south) and become an interrogation as to motive and purpose...I mean, motive and purpose from YOUR side.

What is my purple world like? My RB pleasuredrome?
As I have said...I prefer not to use labels BUT, YOU are my pleasure and WE shall find each other in the most sexsensual erotic of ways..

It is not just a service. It is not about one or other thing.

It is about you and me and what this space can afford in the realm of mind and bodily pleasure.

So.

Let's chat. And when I do not respond immediately, pls remember , I do not sit in a room waiting for my phone to ring. Your are NOT ignored.
It simply means I am busy and the minute I am able, I shall respond...and I don't mean days later. I mean within hours.

Always ever grateful for your interest. Busy is never busy enough!

Looking fwd to chatting snd making that appointment in the hope of many more to follow.

Let's personalise your and my time spent together....no matter how brief.

RB.

I have always had this desire and, it seems, last night, sitting with like-minded people, talking about erotica and kink , nothing excessive, the chance of such happening might just just come true.

It is not for the wild sex driven "fuck me" porn star sort.

Yet. It IS for the "sex" driven , "tainted" with wanton lust BUT, understanding the nuance of sensual seduction, control, subtleness, unrushed engagement.....touch....sort.

It is neither loud in conversation yet, laughter and a comment or two heard that shall draw one to participate and become part of kissing the curve of a womans neck, just like a lover would.

Where nakedness takes time to be revealed and petticoats and a dress code, layer upon layer, a bossom hoisted by the style of the dress and a cleavage captivating, of a hand slid under the cloth soft thighs stockinged in silk....is soooo inciting and plays tricks on ones imagination

Men. Oh! Men daring to wear petticoats too, simply because the feel of a woman's dress makes their hardness that much more intense.

An ambiance where a Masked Party making identity that much more intriguing, of eats, drinks without getting drunk, indulgence in conversation while exploring in the duskiness of low lamp light and candlelight and muskiness filling ones nostrils telling of the fine debauchery fit for the courts of Marie Antionette.....THAT is the dress code.



Who are the guests?

Those that neither rush, nor "fuck".
Those that love sensuality seduction.
Those that would stand behind a room divider and , like a voyeur, look in on another caressing the silkiness of a woman sighing with pleasure.

It is about the intensity of sensual seduction rather than who can fuck who....not saying the slowslide of a shaft hard and a womanly wetness may not be indulged in, the privacy be only a bedroom with the door open, should one wish, for onlookers to saunter in and enoy the soft moans and groans of a sheathed manliness slipping and sliding....

Or a bedroom where a man in his petticoats is being edged and readied for a slow pegging....

Or a bedroom door shut for the privacy of what shall happen is required and not for the eyes of others.

And I?

Mine shall be to watch and lose myself in all that plays out.

This IS for women and men who understand privacy and discretion.
This is for women and men who understand erotic seduction.
This is a list of people I cannot wait to put together with the help of my company last night.

I got back home 2am and the possibility of such a soiree drew me into deep deep peaceful sleep.

I love the art of seduction and I know there are those that love it too and understand EXACTLY what I am talking about.

Shall I participate in the "courts" offerings?
Ooooo....most definitely yes.
But , neither to rush nor to choose too quickly.

To drop a whispered hint, here and there, of all sorts of possibilities and draw out the most desirous, like a moth to a flame, and wait for him who wants "it" most.

RB.

Energy.

Engagement.

Surrender.

And...

Expectation fanciful knows to spoil.

Having a balanced understanding of what could be experienced, not only once you have made a choice BUT after communication , should then lead to an unrestrained surrender of pleasures to come.

Shy is good. Uncertainties to be alleviated once a hug most welcoming takes place

What is it I offer?...asked over and over again.

Communicating with me, even as a regular, knows to unlock many a new adventure.

Let's chat and talk about what's next.

There are boundaries ofcourse, and I have never been a fan of pornstar shenanigans BUT, doesn't mean less passionate, sweaty and explosive, shall our sessions be.

RB.

Men.
Real men.

And here I can take you a bet many shall take offense.

Your prerogative. And, as always , try just TRY read as written from MY perspective and always but ALWAYS, I do welcome comments that are grown up, curious and truly want to know more.

Even those that feel the need to start an argument...just don't hit below the belt because I promise you, I shall give back even better than you can dish out...UNAPOLOGETICALLY.

So!

Why did I start with "Real Men".

Because this post is about men who enjoy donning a woman's clothing...for no other reason than how it feels.

These men

Masculine.
Manly.
Gruff.
No confusion about their identity.
Dealt with and understood the kink, the fetish of wanting to wear woman's clothing.

Neither to judge nor condone.

But urban legend and the fear that many shall express through negative comment is due to non understanding of this fetish and kink.

The same as my gentlemen who love wearing silky women's panties....making their cock hard HARD....loving the caress through the lace, the play...and no care to wear any woman's clothing.

That scale of "crossdressing"

Labels.

When used , to understand them and care to ask what it might mean to the person requesting THAT "label".

In this space where much society frowns upon , where consenting adults in a safe zone should be able to surrender to and enjoy, request and ask about, should be met with sincerity and understanding.

Nothing forced.
Nothing judged.
Nothing shamed.

It IS a space where "NO" or "YES" is respected and the best service provider identified.

Have I realised, on entering this adult world in 2015, how little I actually knew and still don't know?
Most definitely yes.

And once the request is understood, I have FIRM BOUNDARIES, it is either a yes or no without the hoopla of judgement or shaming or overthinking.

I am advertising on an adult site after all.

Give me a shout and let's see if we can give each other pleasure in ways different.


RB.

Greetings my beautiful men.

Do peruse through this thread.

Pls note.

Nothing but nothing I do in my RB space is forced or a service.

It is a PLEASURE.

One thing...

DO READ what I send you and under no condition imagine that what is discussed and agreed upon shall be any different in our session.

So if I said NO.

NO means NO.

I don't talk code.
I don't beat around the bush.


I don't offer rimming, neither give nor receive.

I don't offer anal.

...and it ain't gonna change no matter how much extra u offer me.

There is sooooo much more we can get lost in!

Looking fwd to the gentlemen who are grown up and mature enough to know what respect means....and not get upset when I unceremoniously ask u to leave.

It is you own doing.

Don't try your luck. It ain't gonna work with me.


RB.

Never to forget YOU are 50% of what can happen in a session.

Of course with boundaries in place agreed upon.

Of course respect ever present.

Of course for communication to take place...even while in a session.
Things know many a time to take a turn and other curiosities might arise.

Trust.

Trust is a BIG word and, if anything, trust is what I hope I have gained before you have walked through my door.

Thus.

Surrender.
No expectations.

Just you and me and all that shall be ours.

Your pleasure, is my passion, my drive.

RB.

www.esa.co.za/forum/thread.php


A link why cockworshiping is more than just a label when it comes to you and me.

Enjoy!

RB

There ain't nothing more appealing than a man who ain't scared of his sensuality.
A man who looks forward to engaging that sensuality, a leading woman , a suggestive one, and him feeling no less masculine.

Communication.
Trust.
Surrender.

No overthinking.

All my men...you ARE the experience. YOU are the passion, the pleasure and, in return I look fwd to you taking the reigns when the time is right.


An experience it is.

Come.

Come be part of my world.

RB.