Danika started an interesting thread that I think would be worth following.

Her original comment:

Since there's a thread about what's immediately off-putting about an SP, I think it's only fair we flip it. From an SP's side---let's talk about the things clients do that instantly kill the the vibe making your clit retreat?!

The link to the original thread is below but I think it would be better served under the general forum?

www.esa.co.za/forum/thread.php

I posted there but let kempost here too. Let me help fast track this and also say a lot that may not be said but thought.

Clients that take too long to cum (more than two minutes). "All her other clients cum quickly and this is too much work."

Clients that expect to get fucked/sucked/massaged for the full hour.

Clients that don't like to pay extras. Everything should be paid for extra from kissing, to OWO to the shower. They're not working for free. If not, still pay a big tip.

Clients that don't understand they need time to recover after cumming, even if it's only 15-20 minutes into the session, the rest of the session is too recover and freshen up for whatever is after the session.

Clients that share their bad experiences and reviews with other punters.

Clients that don't come in with a hard dick and ready to stick it in and fuck and go but expect the poor SP's to actually seduce and turn them on.

Clients that expect them to look like their ads, be dressed up and made up like they do in their adverts. They should just accept anything they get. Slops and tracks, dirty feet whatever is the wgs prerogative.

Clients that don't understand that they've had children and have big saggy tummies with lot's of stretch marks and it doesn't matter if they don't show on the adverts.

Clients that expect them to be available when they use the available now status. Clients must understand that they are not actually available when they say they are available and they are not sitting around waiting in lingerie for a booking all day so the clients need to not book when they're horny and need a punt but give advance notice.

Clients that compare them with other wgs. It is plain down respectful, mean and wrong to pick another wh just because she is cheaper and gives better service and lay be younger, hotter or tighter.

Clients that actual want to meet and fuck instead of just buying content. They've got things to do and just need the money so it's unfair to expect them to have to dress up, get to a venue, pay for a room and actually service the client just so a client could get one off when he has hands and could just do it himself.

Clients that want to sit and chill or want a massage after they cum when they come in under 15 minutes of an hour booking. You got what you came for, now fuck off. It's unfair to stick around since she can rest or squeeze in another booking.

Clients that are not understanding when they're tired or sick. Sometimes they have a busy day or weekend or sick or whatever but still need the money so they accept bookings. Not like you can expect a wg not to accept bookings just because she's tired or sick. These bookings are not for you to actually get service. It's just to get the cash so stop coming and expecting them to rock your world and be grateful if you just get to stick it in when she's tired or sick.

JP69

Well Jp69, tell us how you really feel hahahahaha.

Nah i don't agree with a few of these but that thread has gone on long enough so I'll just wait until the ladies respond

On 2026-04-06 21:26:25 Coochie.Pounder1 said:
Nah i don't agree with a few of these but that thread has gone on long enough so I'll just wait until the ladies respond

I hope they do. It will be genuinely interesting to read. Although I think the thread should possibly cover both turn-offs and turn-ons.

On 2026-04-06 21:22:33 Dixxy said:
Well Jp69, tell us how you really feel hahahahaha.

I do that all the time man... Since most don't wanna do it, lol.

JP69

We aren't here to complain . Thats what your wives are for. Cumm on Over and stop bitching already Boys.

@JP69, you absolutely nailed it with all those points brother.

lmao @JP69

1. Hygiene is NON-negotiable
This is number one for a reason. Show up clean, fresh, and presentable. No excuses.
2. Negotiating rates
My rate is my rate. Trying to bargain your way into intimacy is an instant turn-off.
3. Time wasting
Endless chatting, "just checking", or fishing for free previews---no thanks.
4. Disrespectful tone
Approach matters. If you come in rude or entitled, the energy is already off.
5. Ignoring boundaries
Policies are there for safety and comfort. Pushing them ruins everything.
6. Last-minute cancellations / ghosting
7. Book a slot and dont want any massage just want to fuck and flip me around like I'm a rag doll in every other position.
Wasting time is one of the quickest ways to get blacklisted.
Closing line:
Come correct, or don't come at all. Simple.