Last night I found myself in Randburg with the urge to make a booking & a stack of cash on short notice. I have a bad habit of making spontaneous decisions & as such, sometimes it doesn't go well. Nonetheless, there have been good times due to the same reason.

Call elysium spa with the intention of booking Leah & having a few drinks. Meet her, we don't click & I figured I'd let the search continue. *Note to foot fetish members, she has possibly the prettiest set of toes I've seen in a while. Small & cute. You'd love them... Provided you can put up with her. Maybe its just me.

Next stop, Club Malasha, I have commented in another thread about the place so I'll skip the details.

Back in the car, on the road... Look at some of the white WG's & although I'm into them, I have this thing about freckles so I don't wanna waste some ladys time with me complaining.

I was in the area, so off to Stilleto Ranch I go. The venue is immaculate... Have a few drinks, meet the girls from the lineup & make my pick. "Beautiful girl"... She's an absolute stunner. I won't go into detail about our session because its not the point of this story, she's good though. Nice & firm. Handled me well, sort of... & that's when the penny dropped. I came & as I pulled out, we both realised at the same time that the condom had broke. I use my own high quality brand condoms as opposed to the cheapies & have never had this issue in my life. Yes the sex was rough & now that I think about it, she wasn't very wet so that may have contributed to the failure.

So here I am, stressing about the whole thing for obvious reasons. Std's etc... But she looked very clean & we both spoke about it confirming we are disease free but its still stuck in my head. I gave her cash for the morning after pill & the host for the venue has been polite enough to allow me to follow up today about the WG's clinic check to comfirm I haven't contracted anything. I know the chances are low but its still a chance.

I'm not really a stressball & will have myself tested for anything just to be sure but this may just be the deal breaker for me & punting.

Has the above mentioned ever happened to you?

I wouldnt stress too much, but please do get the check up u will never be able to live with that in your mind.

Besides that how my 3rd child was born (burst condom).

Happened to me twice. First time, the WG was a regular, so it was a simple matter of both of us going to a clinic to test together for peace of mind and done.

Second one was a random. My big worry was an STD, so promised her cash if she would show up for testing. She did, got her money (cost of another punt, no big deal) and I thought that was that, phew. A few weeks later, she calls, to say she's pregnant and I should give her money for an abortion. Given I hadn't cum, and given how she thought me paying her to take a test was generous, I smelt a rat and got her to do my own test. She was just trying to get money off me; no baby.

Good move on the pill, but think you should get the girl's number and do your own clinic check, pitching it as peace of mind for her too. Stiletto is a great venue, but it's not really in their interests to say they've been sloppy / fallen behind on their clinic checks, and I see they have a raft of new girls on their roster this month. Checking yourself now only confirms that you hadn't contracted HIV three months ago. Do one now with the girl, and another in three months.

As for it being a deal-breaker....it was for me then. I think I was even on the wagon for 5 months. Clearly fell off. Reading up on the mechanics of how HIV and other STDs are contracted helps (either keep you far away from sex in general, or gives you the comfort that as long as you take reasonable precautions, you're good).

Hiv is a fragile, difficult to transmit virus and more so from a woman to a man. Ih ave yet to see the insertive partner (which is you) end up positive over a condom break and I don't expect you to be the first. You are much more likely to end up with one of the other, more easily transmitted sexual infections that can be treated if you do get something, than you are to end up with hiv because of a condom break.

However, you have had a risk and you do need to test. While the testing window period for hiv is three months, a test at six weeks will give you an excellent indication of your hiv status. The vast majority of people who have actually been infected will seroconvert and test positive by six weeks, with the average time to seroconversion being 22 days. A negative result at six weeks must be confirmed at the three month point, but is highly unlikely to change.

All the best bud.

These things can haunt you . My buddy and I were riding off road bikes in Cambodia when he nearly wiped himself out - anyway we limp into a small town to get him patched up and stay over in a small hotel , felt something like Apocalypse Now the whole vibe . So we sitting on the verandah and a pimp arrives on a motorbike and says do we want some entertainment , we say '' Bring 3 we'll pick 2 '' ( my buddy is a man of iron ) .

Mine is young and so tight I can hardly move , clearly business is slow ....... On pulling out , the condom is now a scarf . Holy shit ! First Zuma like idea is to leap into the swimming pool LOL ..... Sweating , furiously looking for comfort on the internet about statistics ...

Anyway , that was on May 8 2004 - I often wonder whether there's a little 8 year old running around in the dust , does cross my mind to go check sometimes .....

Lol dude, you even remember the exact date.

Clean girl doesn't mean the person is HIV free..u should hav went to doctor get tested and get emergency pills I think u kno the procedure

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Im having a blue thursday!

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