Has any one's partners caught you using ESA on ur phone? Asking for a friend

My burner got busted by my wife and all the enquiries I'd made were called. What a total stuff up. Fortunately I hadn't gone to see any of the girls.


So I admitted that I'd been looking for something special but a massage. And went and showed her the other red site. Not this one. The ladies here too fine to show vrou. Lool

On 2026-02-10 22:09:40 Syla said:
My burner got busted by my wife and all the enquiries I'd made were called. What a total stuff up. Fortunately I hadn't gone to see any of the girls.


So I admitted that I'd been looking for something special but a massage. And went and showed her the other red site. Not this one. The ladies here too fine to show vrou. Lool

Geez, that must have been terrifying at the time. I guess honesty is the best policy at such a time.

Right? Downright messy. So on a detox

A few years ago some punter went to sleep and left his phone on ESA. The wife found it and started posting on the forum. The punter had used the ESA messaging and the wife posted attacking every WG he had sent a message. It was messy.

One evening, my partner decided to borrow my phone. You ever feel your ancestors leave your body while someone scrolls through your phone? If your partner works in IT, your phone is not yours. It's just a device they're temporarily allowing you to use. I used to think I had all the privacy settings...until my "tech support" at home came with screenshots.

Because while you're thinking your phone is locked, they're thinking, "Challenge accepted." I learned this lesson the forensic way.

Tip: When choosing a life partner, make sure they are not in IT. You want someone who can't reset your password, bypass your Face ID, Jail break your phone, by-pass two-factor authentication or retrieve deleted messages. Trust me... I conducted extensive field research. Against myself.

Yeah.

Let's just say my old credentials entered witness protection.

Closed casket funeral. Small ceremony. A few discreet tears.

I wasn't hiding. It was crisis management.

Now. New phone. New username. Same Veteran punter.

That's called operational security.

So I learned the hard way, having a partner in IT is basically a human lie detector with admin access.

Nothing humbles you faster than hearing, 'oh, your password? Yeah, that took me about three minutes to crack.'

For android..

1. Open private / incognito tab to browse esa.
2. Change settings to lock all incognito tabs. Only opens with fingerprint.
3. I use a separate browser for esa, not my usual chrome.
4. Never had an issue.
5. Also got my punting number whatsapp installed on my primary phone in a hidden folder to open with fingerprint. Must mute notifications on second WhatsApp.

Hold on. You guys are MARRIED?!

Have you guys tried using a VPN?

Before I figured out about Incognito, I once forgot to clear my browser history and my wife used my phone to google something and this page opened up.

I told her I was searching ESSA "Employment Services SA" and this site popped up, that was over 10 years ago.