On 2021-03-24 09:29:40 Stem said:
Good points. But I think at the end of the day No means No irrespective of the person and the situation and what was posted. Things change, people have good days and bad days.
I always clear with the lady - WG or MG before things get really hot. If they do something I do not enjoy I tell them and expect them to abide as I do once I discussed the boundaries.
On 2021-03-24 10:02:01 Bbw Nadia said:
I had this convo with a deceased advertiser Teddy. She had been getting more than her fair share of manhandling by punters and it's exactly what you mentioned. Her advertising and convos on the forum sent mixed messages and guys thought that manhandling her was what she was into. Words are used on this forum and guys are acting accordingly. That rhetoric might be what he is looking for and it appeals to what he wants to do on a booking. Then he gets to the lady and she is not into that at all. He is so absorbed in what he wants and doesn't even take notice when she says no..... No means no, even if you paid. And ladies must protect themselves at all costs. If it means changing how you market yourself, then it's what you do. Certain tones and undertones influence the type of clientele you appeal to. Why word an ad in a particular way to attract guys who want rough sex when you are not into that? And punters need to make sure when booking a lady that she is into what he is into.
On 2021-03-24 17:08:33 Good2bbad said:
No means no. A wg or mg must be clear with what the boundaries are at the beginning and a client should ask before he does something.
Also in general to many guys get excited and get caught in marketing talk by ladies and should realise what it is from the start and not always take things to literally