As the first post suggests I am new here. Looking for some advice on a few things.
I've already done some research, know the basics like punting number, reviews, confirming details beforehand ect.

I'm more curious about rates and bookings in particular. I'm not going to negotiate a girls rates down but am still a sucker for a deal, so how does one get in the know if a girl runs specials ect without inquiring directly/ coming across disrespectful? Most don't mention promotions here.

Is it also better to message the number instead of reaching out via this sites mail system?

They do post specials. There's just nothing special about the specials most of the time and usually nothing punters are interested in like content. There's a whole section just for advertiser promotions.

Contacting them directly won't get you specials. Hell, they think they already got your attention so you're likely to not even he offered a special that they are currently advertising on the forum unless you saw special already and mention it.

Two ways to track special is

- to check the promotions section here once in a while and learn how to skip the content and repetitive non-special garbage so you don't waste time on that.

- make and enquiry and get on their WA statuses as some wgs and venues will put the specials on there as well.

That is about it.

JP69

And also remember that most girls "special" are not really specials as you would not know their actual price and is just a way for them attrack new clients.

The only might be worthwhile specials I've seen is on WhatsApp statuses

Fair enough thank you for the pointers.
I've had a decent look through the forums and not much promos in the PTA area for massage.

In my personal opinion I'd be more inclined to book a specific provider that has a promotional rate and run with it, I'm only into massage right now.

Rather ask urself why did u join esa and even as a goldmember. Joined in jan and only post 5 months later.
Stop going through the forum and start contacting girls. U wil probably get blocked or scammed by sum when u start with ur negotiations.
If u only want massage for as cheap as possible then rather go to normal massage studios.

U a big boy in the grown up world now. Now u need to do things for urself. Nobody is here to hold ur hand

On 2026-05-30 10:39:16 dondajon said:
I am new here.

Good.

Best way to get your head around pricing is to make a few enquiries in the area you looking at. That way you will get a sense of whats a 'good deal'. But also note you getting a 'customized experience', so almost impossible to put a price on it. Just got to spend a bit until you find what works for you.

On 2026-06-01 22:12:41 Pumpkineater said:
Rather ask urself why did u join esa and even as a goldmember. Joined in jan and only post 5 months later.
Stop going through the forum and start contacting girls. U wil probably get blocked or scammed by sum when u start with ur negotiations.
If u only want massage for as cheap as possible then rather go to normal massage studios.

U a big boy in the grown up world now. Now u need to do things for urself. Nobody is here to hold ur hand

My post is less a matter of comfort and more so strategy, I can naturally go out and experience on my own and I can communicate and reach out perfectly fine.

To clarify on my side It's also not necessarily the just looking for the cheapest service, naturally everyone loves a deal especially when you are presently seeking the product/service.

I guess the purpose of this posting in an outward forum would be to get outside perspective and maybe something not so obvious to me given the context. It's also not necessarily known who offers discounts, even upon reaching out.

I'm on posting on here so looking for massage that is not offered at most regular studios.

On 2026-06-03 12:25:10 dondajon said:
On 2026-06-01 22:12:41 Pumpkineater said: Rather ask urself why did u join esa and even as a goldmember. Joined in jan and only post 5 months later.
Stop going through the forum and start contacting girls. U wil probably get blocked or scammed by sum when u start with ur negotiations.
If u only want massage for as cheap as possible then rather go to normal massage studios.

U a big boy in the grown up world now. Now u need to do things for urself. Nobody is here to hold ur hand


My post is less a matter of comfort and more so strategy, I can naturally go out and experience on my own and I can communicate and reach out perfectly fine.

To clarify on my side It's also not necessarily the just looking for the cheapest service, naturally everyone loves a deal especially when you are presently seeking the product/service.

I guess the purpose of this posting in an outward forum would be to get outside perspective and maybe something not so obvious to me given the context. It's also not necessarily known who offers discounts, even upon reaching out.

I'm on posting on here so looking for massage that is not offered at most regular studios.

These type of things you only learn through experience. So you will have to get dialling and booking. What you are asking for is intuitive learning that can only be gained by experiencing this industry over many years. However what I can tell you about rates vary depending on race and area.