So I was reading a chaotic back and forth review. Punter A booked and wrote a whole negative review (thb that review is mean spirited), Lady responds defending herself (She clearly knows who he is)...Punter B & C also come to her defense, they have been with her more than once.

Punter A claps back and asks: "you said you visited her, so where are your reviews". Lol now I'm also curious, Why are y'all gatekeeping some of these amazing ladies. If Punter A didn't write the negative review, were punter B & C ever gonna praise her. Why wait for a negative review to talk about how great she is?

The reason I love the purple world over red and blue is because of the forum and review system. But people are gatekeeping. I don't get it. I'm not fighting, I'm just asking.

...they want to keep their girls...thinking its their secret...surprise!

I will be honest and say I'm lazy to write. Also I think my reviews would be very bland. Im not a good writer. It would be one of those "I won't go to too much details but I had a great time" type of reviews. Also I guess only 30-40% of punters review or even use the forum section. Most just book and chow silently.

I've been roaming the purple streets for over 10 years and I only started commenting a few years ago (think 2021) And I've only ever reviewed once on my previous deleted account

So do those 60 to 70% of non reviewing punters use the reviews of others or not?

Imagine if everyone does not contribute. Then this purple site becomes the same as the other sites, no?

And some probably dont review, because when it is not a glowing review, they get attacked from the SP and other punters.

In the case above, i wondered why they needed to attack him so much? Why not just insert their positive reviews? And then punters can decide...

Must say i have learned that when certain punters praise an SP, i am skeptical. There are a few punters where my opinion could not be more different from their rating. Am i full of shit, or they just so pussy struck that they cannot be objective? I dont know.

On 2026-02-23 13:11:38 Mistro said:
So do those 60 to 70% of non reviewing punters use the reviews of others or not?

Imagine if everyone does not contribute. Then this purple site becomes the same as the other sites, no?

Well I can't speak on other punters but I do follow reviews from reliable punters. I don't have to imagine if everyone doesn't contribute cos there will always be punters that review and punters that don't. There are punters who are willing and good reviewers and storytellers. That's how it is..

If a lady gave me shit service, no review..

But if someone asks me about her i will give the punter the truth.

I only review the great vists...we need to share the love and great service, this keeps the ladies in the province or country..and also spreads the word that its worth it to spread in SA or Jozie...keeps the hunnies cumming.

I generally don't review unless if asked to write a review. The reason being is probably unknown to myself even, however I have seen some wonderful ladies here and also experienced some bad punts. Everybody's experience is different, it is all about your own personal connection that you create and foster with the Lady.

On 2026-02-23 13:44:13 GeminiMajor said:
There are punters who are willing and good reviewers and storytellers. That's how it is..

It took me 7 years to write my first review. Lol if you can find it, it's 2 lines long of me saying "she's amazing, she's great, 10/10". Ever since that one review I've made sure I review everyone I book, it helps everybody (the lady and the punters who are not sure), some punters even send me messages to ask for more details about a lady I booked and reviewed. Now I'm not what anyone would consider a "reliable punter" or a great storyteller but I still review.

Now I understand not everyone is comfortable with writing, heck it took me 7 years to do so. But if a lady leaves a great impression on you, it wouldn't hurt to highlight her with a review. Coming back to the example I made at the beginning of this thread, those 2 Punters could have written their positive reviews and it would have been a counter to the one negative review. But because they said nothing, our first and only impression of the lady is that negative review.

On 2026-02-23 09:48:10 Mr Naai-er said:
...they want to keep their girls...thinking its their secret...surprise!

Exactly Sir, that's why I love how you always hype Skyllar on posts. That's my hun and throat goat too, but I wouldn't wanna gatekeep her and stop her business doing well.