Of late, there is this trend.

This one, is just the latest.

Today I progressed from being the most professional, desirable, one in a million, a fantasy come true

To

Risky.
Time waster
Leaving him with blue balls and and and

I was not the one that made initial contact.
Nor suggested fees for services requested.

From being invited to a weekend to sun city, to dinner tonight to him wanking of to JOI.

From R20k for Friday night to Sunday eve

To R2k for a call and JOI.

I humoured him.

Money first I insisted for the call and a deposit for the other two is required

Thats when things went south, even though he set the rate and said would be sending funds immediately before any engagement of any sort...and understood money upfront because it was not his first time engaging in "adult entertainment." He knew how it worked.

Ladies.

Be careful.

Chancers.
Scammers.
Shameful deceitful users that will openly lie and leave you feeling used and dirty. And feeling very stupid.

This sort knows times are not easy.
This sort will use your need to earn against you.
A predator.

The last time, and only time, this happened to me was in 2021 in CT, cheated by a regular.

Never again.

It made me feel sooooo stupid and dirty . Why would I not believe he would pay me???

He read me like a book.

This nasty pandemic of scammers on both sides of the fence, is on the rise, making one more diligent.

Why gentlemen?

Why try rape the ladies of their dignity, yes dignity, and disrespect their right to earn.

As to me.

Do I lose out on appointments? Because I refuse to budge?
I am sure i do.
But .
A minimal amount lost compared to the appointments honored and my way of working respected.
A bad economy is bringing out the worst sort among the good. Blatant and without shame.
But also true..a scammer remains a scammer no matter economy good or bad...and there are MANY among both women and men.


It leaves a bitter taste in the mouth.

And takes immense self control with respect to many many possible words and actions that one could resort to.

Stay diligent.

RB.

Sorry this happened to you, it's painful when people use your good nature against you.
It's terribly hard to give someone the benefit of the doubt these days ,for very good reasons!

Thank you Kylie.

It is a very sad state of affairs.

I agree with your sentiment...
"It's terribly hard to give someone the benefit of the doubt these days ,for very good reasons!"

But, lets put good nature aside and let's talk about being a Service Provider.

A service requested. An engagement like no other.

Where individuals get naked , agree upon, be it anal, rimming, fingering, muffing, cock sucking, snowballing, cum swallowing, kinky, bdsm , girl on girl, gang bangs and and and....

Is there truly a price for this???? Something soooooo intimate that one would not even dare to consider asking ones partner to engage in lest one is looked at as being a "sex freak" of some sort, lest one imagines it to be an inadvertent insult of some sort, and the Almighty forbid society gets wind of such private and discreet sexsensual play. Outcast! Outcast!

What gets to me is that ones intelligence is being undermined....WTF does a whore know or deserve... ones professionalism disrespected yet, constant demand for this and that and that and this by those indulging in the adult world.

All fine and well where constructive criticism given or suggestions worthy of consideration given.

I abhor generalisation, no context or understanding nor desire to think a little deeper.

It is not surprising this adult space has gone to hell.

I am very forthright and I know such fucknut behaviour affects many women much worse than it does me.
I get angry yes. But, I move on quickly. It does not in any way make me question my self worth or the services I offer.
Lesson learnt.

Ladies . Stay professional. Give the best of yourself.
And....NEVER play into the hands of the ever complaining predators.

Easier said than done.

But maybe just maybe sticking to ones guns will get rid of the scammers, both women and men and lead back to a place where respectful consenting adults can have rewarding fun.



RB.