This morning I received many messages from SP's just showing support and sharing their care.

It was touching

THAT is sisterhood and thank u ladies.

No matter who one may be or perceived as, a kind word and support further affirms why fucknuts should not be allowed to bully good society into submission.

BUT.

More worrying, was what I noted from many of the messages and, made me sad and concerned.

A common denominator in most messages was, sharing the negative psychological impact the care less abusive statements made by fucknuts have on finer sensibilities and their reason for staying away from the forum.

Here, The ask be for gfe's , cuddling companionship and simple "human" sexsensual contact. ...kinkiness without judgement, seeking the best possible experience between consenting adults .


Gentlemen...most SP's, have faith in the code of conduct between Punter and them.

They respect without knowing who u are, even though it is said respect is earned.

They Will give the best of themselves in the hope they satisfies u.

They Will put aside any bodily insecurities and undress for u and get lost in ur need to be pleasured and pleased.

Constructive criticism is good and does know to afford leeway for betterment where possible.

But, vile viciousness without cause or reason has no place in good society.

And as I said to some...I love bullies. I will never back down to them. Fucknuts... If they can give , I can give even better....an innocent being shot down for a vile jibe and laugh...that stupid statement.."lets get the popcorn out", proof of a degenerate society...I cannot ignore. There is already too much hell to have to carry the brunt of a rubbish behind a keyboard, cowardly anonymous.

The pleasure lays in exposing the bully, living to tell another day and hopefully give some peace of mind to those of finer sensibilities that a public forum is a much richer place with their participation and comments without concern of being shot down by a fucknut.

How much richer would this forum be if SP's came forth and revealed themselves a little more.

I can guarantee the dormant Punters would surely have a reason to smile broader and be more confident on what can be found on the Purple pages , the opening of a candy store most delightful.

And thus hoping to see more participants from the SP side and the comeback of engaging Punters too.


Let the fun and games begin...royally Purple and fuckiliciously debaucherous.!

RB.

Hey RB, it's awesome that there were so many WG supporting you!There definitely are awesome ladies in this industry just a pity that there also have to be those who's main purpose is to scam, I was scammed yesterday. Not cool! Most of the the ladies I have been in touch with are great. Must be tough especially if you do an out call. She drives into a driveway gates close behind her. She's stuck, shit it must be scary?

Concur 100%... Ms Queen RB

There are 2 sides to a coin

Sad that some bring the bad side of the coin to view. Carelessly destroying, the many years of hard work and effort put in to build a reputable reputation and business, by those that understand this industry's "code of conduct"

Now allow me to share a story, still not resolved:

A certain lady that once had her profile on Esa, with a well developed website (which is still active) , offered a promotion week before end 2022.

The Offer: 50% off.. Pay for 1 hour and get 2hrs. Valid till Jan 2023,

The Deal: Pay 50% deposit before end Dec 2022, rest on day of appointment

Research done: All looks legit and many whatsapp conversations to "prove" it. Although not many reviews???

Me gullible: Decides to be a gentleman and settles the full total.

Money Paid: first appointment gets canceled, due to her being ill. That sent alarm bells ringing. I only had a certain amount days to complete this whole transaction, and that was discussed on WhatsApp, and agreed upon.

Refund: She eventually settles on a refund. With a long story, I must be patient as she must work for, which ironically was the next night.

To crown it all: She asks way did I send the full amount (she's willing to only refund 50%). My response "I trusted you to deliver as agreed and promised

Waiting: Today is the 22nd, she has stopped responding. Her attitude changed after I started to request immediate payment.

She's still advertising on another site. When she returns to Esa, I will highlight her.

This was my first, and hopefully last scam

SO YES THERE ARE FANTASTIC ETHICAL SP on this site... You are appreciated

It will be great if this will happen.... "And thus hoping to see more participants from the SP side and the comeback of engaging Punters too."!

Good morning sinker69

Thank u for ur realness and sharing.

It is good to share and learn a little more about what is out there and another persons thoughts.

Many have no true realization of another persons reality and might consider it ONLY if experienced or, keen to hear.

It is a horrid feeling to be scammed . One feels like an idiot, a stupid and ones faith in good society gets taken away. Ask me too.

That will to believe that another comes from the same place as self...morals and scruples....and happy to engage with such...shattered.

Taking things on face value for what they are...trusting.

Trust.
Can trust be applied in this space of fuckery?

Why not???
Even more so....that "code of conduct among theives" thing....of course not to confuse bad service delivery with scamsters or liers.

But, it seems of late the very fibre of ethics has been shredded more and more as to relationship between SP and Punter.

Why?
Is it telling of the times or simply telling of the character of that person?

As to the precautions a SP takes on receiving a total stranger into her space or, walking into his space....THAT is a discussion on its own....where human to human trust takes on another meaning even if all safety precautions are put in place.

RB.

Smi365

Thank u thank u for sharing ur experience.

Again...as said...it is good to hear what angers one and why distrust happens and makes it a nightmare for others.

I think a public forum like this one, does make many potential scammers hesitant simply because it can be made public for all to see. It doesn't mean they ain't present....both male and female.

I cannot stand when I get played for a fool for, like u, I trust that which we have agreed upon , shall be honored.

Why would it not be? It makes no sense.

So yes...sorry sounds so stupid but, I am, for it makes u more hesitant in engaging with us SP's in general.

Like in mainstream of things no space is free of chancers and deceivers....this, a subculture of the SA society we live in as a whole?

And lastly

Thank u for making me feel ultra special and addressing me respectfully....THANK YOU...I shall make u ALL mine for an hour or more when I land in CT. I just have to! May I pls pls???

And...

THANK YOU....for acknowledging the many many deliciously delightful SP's who only know to give the best of themselves over and over.

RB.

On 2023-01-22 08:40:42 sinker69 said:
It will be great if this will happen.... "And thus hoping to see more participants from the SP side and the comeback of engaging Punters too."!

HEAR!

HEAR!

...It is good to make ur acquaintance sinker69.

Looking fwd to reading more of ur contributions!

:))))

RB.

Rb,
"Trust.
Can trust be applied in this space of fuckery?

Why not???
Even more so....that "code of conduct among theives" thing....of course not to confuse bad service delivery with scamsters or liers.

But, it seems of late the very fibre of ethics has been shredded more and more as to relationship between SP and Punter.

Why?
Is it telling of the times or simply telling of the character of that person?"

We all know times are tough for everyone. I have been lucky to have an awesome experience with a SP "looking to have another one." I do believe in the trust between thieves can work. Why not. You have yourself a great Sunday.

Then u and I are on the same page sinker69


...and a blessed great Sunday back at you.

x