I've been to many apartment complexes and I've never had a problem.
Security guards have never said anything to me, and I would never offer them a "cool drink."

When I go to an apartment, I go for a massage, and nobody can prove otherwise.
It's as simple as that.

On 2026-02-20 08:30:39 GeminiMajor said:
This is one of the reasons I will always prefer houses/venues or guesthouses than complexes/townhouses/apartments. The security guards are nosy and you have to sign in some places you sign in with your drivers licence and they take down your car number plate so you can't even give fake details

Oh what a pity... There's no such at my complex. Those who have come to see me in Fourways know this. At the gate you don't talk to anyone. You just punch in my unit number or the code I would have sent to you at the gate then I open for you. Going out you use a code Ofcos. No interaction with security whatsoever. For those whom I'm a spec to, don't hesitate incase you had a worry...
Let's shag without worries and be merry*kisses*

On 2026-02-21 17:06:22 Sexyhumour said:
For those whom I'm a spec to, don't hesitate incase you had a worry...
Let's shag without worries and be merry*kisses*

...o spec wena ngwana. Especially after that classic "le a re tlwaela mesono!" line from the day. Lol I'm definitely sold!

@Bongz, I've actually never had a problem with guards. Maybe I just have a naturally thick skin I don't know. But I've never cared what another dude that's doing his job and I'm going about my business, thinks about my business. Yes I've encountered the thatjarag ones that ask for a cold drink, but I quickly put them in their place.

One guard even once asked me whether I'm dating all the girls that live at a certain apartment 906 at a certain complex, and I simply just stared at him in silence with my driver's license in his face. I sensed a potential shakedown and decided to just call his bluff.

Even when I do in-calls at a hotel or my complex, I don't give a shit if the lady comes dressed like a "hooker" and what the neighbours would think. My business is my business, finish and klaar.

@Sir Shadow Hefner I think the biggest reason why they were always trying me is because I didn't have a car at the time, I'd Uber to the location and enter on foot so they would try to create conversation as I was entering in order to get coldrink. Once I got a car, those interactions ended.

Around Covid I had way too much time on my hands and would have so many girls over, that the security at my own complex started giving me that look of suspicion mixed with admiration. Once a girl arrived looking for someone else and they immediately assumed she was there for me. So I know well how suspicious security guards can be.

On 2026-02-21 18:21:15 Sir Shadow Hefner said:
On 2026-02-21 17:06:22 Sexyhumour said: For those whom I'm a spec to, don't hesitate incase you had a worry...
Let's shag without worries and be merry*kisses*

...o spec wena ngwana. Especially after that classic "le a re tlwaela mesono!" line from the day. Lol I'm definitely sold!

Wena ek wil jou naai en goed so...
Ke tlogo nyoka gore... Ba ntsebang ba mpitsa ausi Nyoki. You are missing out lol