On 2026-03-02 09:18:32 Pumpkineater said:
Bongs do u first pay in the heat of the moment or do u pay afterwards.

Lol I had to pay afterwards. I was seduced in tricked in the heat of the moment. Those ladies can make a spy reveal state secrets.

Another thing you need to consider is if let's say she (wg) is at the club and happens to meet up with a guy she's very much attracted to, she won't hold back right. She will give the guy every part of her body to enjoy with no boundary/ restriction and certainly NO PAY. So just discuss in the room is a way of just her saying that you are not good enough.

Normally it's when a wg wants to screen if has any form of physical attraction towards you. Having said that, if during a booking( let's say just a sensual massage) she can see that you are conveying signs that you want to escalate things, she will suggest a FH option whereas as she will stipulate any price whether you can afford at the time or not as she knows that within that price she gave, if she does allow negotiation, you will still pay a hefty amount as you are in need of emptying your balls right there and then by being in her. Remember wgs think just as any other female out there. If she's attracted to you, she will be lenient. If she's not attracted to you, she will get you to pay as much as she doesnt give a fuck about you.

On 2026-03-02 10:58:20 Ryan 22 said:
So just discuss in the room is a way of just her saying that you are not good enough.

You comparison is off Ryan. You can't compare her meeting someone she likes at the club and letting him fuck for free with her meeting a random stranger from an escort site whose paying her to fuck... Ryan non of these women like us, we not even their types. They are only tolerating us because there's a fee attached to it. Otherwise you'd be getting ignored in the streets if you shot your shot at a WG/MG.

On 2026-03-02 11:45:38 Bonganelovejoy said:
On 2026-03-02 10:58:20 Ryan 22 said: So just discuss in the room is a way of just her saying that you are not good enough.

You comparison is off Ryan. You can't compare her meeting someone she likes at the club and letting him fuck for free with her meeting a random stranger from an escort site whose paying her to fuck... Ryan non of these women like us, we not even their types. They are only tolerating us because there's a fee attached to it. Otherwise you'd be getting ignored in the streets if you shot your shot at a WG/MG.

Bonganelovejoy, I hear your point on what Ryan said. But I'm going to have to disagree with you that they'd ignore us in the streets if you approached them. They may tolerate us because it's not their desired 'job' to be touching our willies and putting them in their mouths, but they are human at the end of the day and are attracted to men. Those that don't hate men, that is.

And I don't want to speak too much on this, but some do ask you to scratch their itch during their time off work without having to pay a fee. There are some real nymphomaniacs on here.

On 2026-03-02 19:42:56 Littlerascal said:
On 2026-03-02 11:45:38 Bonganelovejoy said: On 2026-03-02 10:58:20 Ryan 22 said: So just discuss in the room is a way of just her saying that you are not good enough.

You comparison is off Ryan. You can't compare her meeting someone she likes at the club and letting him fuck for free with her meeting a random stranger from an escort site whose paying her to fuck... Ryan non of these women like us, we not even their types. They are only tolerating us because there's a fee attached to it. Otherwise you'd be getting ignored in the streets if you shot your shot at a WG/MG.

Bonganelovejoy, I hear your point on what Ryan said. But I'm going to have to disagree with you that they'd ignore us in the streets if you approached them. They may tolerate us because it's not their desired 'job' to be touching our willies and putting them in their mouths, but they are human at the end of the day and are attracted to men. Those that don't hate men, that is.

And I don't want to speak too much on this, but some do ask you to scratch their itch during their time off work without having to pay a fee. There are some real nymphomaniacs on here.

I agree with Ras on this one, Bongz. And like him I also won't go into personal stories and details. But when you've been in this game long enough, you realize that the SPs are also human/ladies and they can often times just like you as a guy/man. However with these setups, I've learnt it's better if there's open discussion and agreement so that there's no exploitation of anyone. I've seen both sides of the coin.

On 2026-03-02 19:49:37 Sir Shadow Hefner said:
On 2026-03-02 19:42:56 Littlerascal said: On 2026-03-02 11:45:38 Bonganelovejoy said: On 2026-03-02 10:58:20 Ryan 22 said: So just discuss in the room is a way of just her saying that you are not good enough.

You comparison is off Ryan. You can't compare her meeting someone she likes at the club and letting him fuck for free with her meeting a random stranger from an escort site whose paying her to fuck... Ryan non of these women like us, we not even their types. They are only tolerating us because there's a fee attached to it. Otherwise you'd be getting ignored in the streets if you shot your shot at a WG/MG.

Bonganelovejoy, I hear your point on what Ryan said. But I'm going to have to disagree with you that they'd ignore us in the streets if you approached them. They may tolerate us because it's not their desired 'job' to be touching our willies and putting them in their mouths, but they are human at the end of the day and are attracted to men. Those that don't hate men, that is.

And I don't want to speak too much on this, but some do ask you to scratch their itch during their time off work without having to pay a fee. There are some real nymphomaniacs on here.

I agree with Ras on this one, Bongz. And like him I also won't go into personal stories and details. But when you've been in this game long enough, you realize that the SPs are also human/ladies and they can often times just like you as a guy/man. However with these setups, I've learnt it's better if there's open discussion and agreement so that there's no exploitation of anyone. I've seen both sides of the coin.

Yup, the point about making sure there's no exploitation and taking advantage of a situation or someone is an important one.

PS. My rates are all-inclusive for FH and sensual massage. If you're looking at COF, I charge an additional R200 to my rate. I don't offer anal or CIM xxx All sex is with a condom.

I am absolutely transparent about my rates before we even step in the room. Cum have fun in the moment, without worrying what the session will tally up to xxx