Watching Magic Mike now and ashamed to say, I'm so typical in that I need some alone time with my imagination and my Magic finger right now.

Kind of feel the same watching Gordon Ramsey or Naked Chef shows, lol.

What turns you on about a man ladies?

Ideally a combination of the 3 points below, but what attracts me initially, is number 1.

1.Intelligence - also must be very well read and be able to have serious discussions about any topic;
2. A great sense of humor - ability to laugh at himself;
3. Self-Confidence - not clingy or jealous/possessive;

I'm talking raw unadulterated, animalistic you Sybil. Not the one that thinks. I'm talking about seeing a man do something and wanting a go at him there and then. I typically love the same things you do in a guy, and they can't all dance or cook. But I can fantasize when watching a movie If they do something that gets me going.

I get what you mean. To be honest, there are no visual actions that turn me on, so I'm pretty boring person in that regard. The only visual things that may have a slight effect on me, is the eyes & smile of the actor, but not to the point of it resulting in fantasizing.

Dunno if it is an Aries thing or just my rigid mind, but I've never really been into fantasizing, not even when masturbating, my mind is a total blank during the act. Weird I know! Mind you, I do not have a romantic bone in my body, so no wonder I also lack in the fantasy department...lol.

I'm a dreamer. Always have been. Give me fantasy over reality Any day....always better then the real thing, lol.

On 2017-01-17 21:45:24 Sibyl said:
Ideally a combination of the 3 points below, but what attracts me initially, is number 1.

1.Intelligence - also must be very well read and be able to have serious discussions about any topic;
2. A great sense of humor - ability to laugh at himself;
3. Self-Confidence - not clingy or jealous/possessive;

I do agree Sybil. .and
How he takes care of himself.
Always smell nice.
How he present himself (convince )
Well spoken.
Naughty by nature (with me ;-))
Well mannered
Caring
Sy suiwerheid van taal gebruik...now this gets my heart pumping.
There are so many things.. but Veronica Mike Mag maar f## my!

What gives me a turn on about a man...The way he talks to me(how far he will go to satisfy my every need)..touch me look at me with a smile and it reaches his eyes. Omg I'm a sucker for a beautiful smile...

So Meg, If i smile would you...

;-). How is that gorgeous Meg?

Lol I'm talking in general gentleman lol. ;-)
That you Sam. ..I'll think about it.