I've been single for 2 years now. In 2024 I was in and out of 3 relationships, one lasted 3 months, the other (with a WG, Lol) lasted 2 weeks n the last one lasted 1 week. Before these relationships, I was single for 5 years. I don't even approach women because everything I see one that grabs my attention, the first thought that comes into my mind is "I know someone on ESA who has a similar body build and pretty that I can book right now without getting a rejection, side eye, having to take her on a date etc". So even when my relationships ended, I didn't really care coz my regulars are a phone call away. Lol damn, at this point I doubt I'll approach a random stranger coz there's always an ESA equivalent or better that I can call and book with no stress or fear.

Lol I'm fucked.

Judging your reasons, rejection, side eye, going on dates, stress, fear - meeting women has been difficult for you, and I think it's worth working on. Personally, punting has had the opposite effect, I'm less desperate cos I can always book, so I can laugh at rejection, side eyes, I can afford dates that go no where

It's just not true that there are equivalents or better, especially with respect to personality. Sex is better when the two people like each other. I find that often women that like you, will do things for your own pleasure, whereas here that's called an extra

This place is like fast food but there's no mistaking good quality meat

@Bonganelovejoy - one week and two weeks? You count those as relationships?

On 2026-04-02 23:35:44 Littlerascal said:
@Bonganelovejoy - one week and two weeks? You count those as relationships?

Hahaha Let's call them side quests.

On 2026-04-02 22:02:58 ExplorerLuke said:
meeting women has been difficult for you, and I think it's worth working on.

You are absolutely correct, I am an introvert and don't like putting myself out there, hence ESA makes things easier for me. It's something that I've been trying to work on, but I keep coming back here when I fail. I'll keep trying though

Why spoil a good thing B,...WG are less headache stress, drama and costs than a girlfriend.

Apart from the occasional ghosting at the gate, random fake cop calls,...i will take those odds any day.

Big bonus...you can try all the world has to offer in terms of variety..without any guilt.

..keep up the good work..the only one getting fucked is your next visit.

Random fake cop calls making the list is hilarious, haha!