So a week ago Friday I start getting text from a a punter asking questions about services ect. All good nothing out of the ordinary.

Then Monday morning he makes an appointment for Monday evening. Does not show up.

Tuesday morning sends me a text sorry he couldn't make it. Makes and appointment for teusday evening. Does not pitch.

Wednesday during day I get a text sorry I really had issues can I come tonight.
Now I am already not happy with the chain of bookings and not pitching so say yes. But in my soul I just know it is a waste of time. Well my gut was right he does not pitch.

So I decide that I will not engage with this guy anymore no matter the excuse. So I ignore calls and text and even block whatsup and calls.

That's the end of that and I continue with my life.

Saturday evening someone knocks on my door. Open my door and there is a girl that I have not seen in my life before and a guy that I instantly regonise as the punter(whatsup had profile photo) that had stood me up 3 evenings in a row and that I have blocked all communications with.

She starts out with this client wants to see you.
He attempts to head into my door. I push door closer a bit. And tell her no he ain't here to see me he has not got an appointment I work on appointments and he stood me up 3 times during the week. I have blocked him and won't do business with him. And why did she bring him here.?

Her answer because he made an appointment with her but when he got here asked and actually begged her to fetch me or take him to me. And he would not leave until she did as he asked. I told him I won't see him. I told her to take him and leave. I was upset so I just closed and locked my door.

Later went and found her and spoke to her. We are cool and no hard feelings or issues. She is use to working in a house setup with other ladies and if a client ask about other girls they share info. And she just wanted to be rid of him because she had another client on his way. But doing so she has exposed me to a client I have already dismissed because of unexceptable behaviour.

I have very deep issues with this whole thing. And it all starts with guys not knowing boundaries.

Just because me and another girl use the same lodge/guesthouse or hotel does not mean we know each other or work together.( How did she know I was a working girl or that I was here. I don't know maybe he showed her the face pic I do send with my info piece. How did she know my room number, probably asked the staff showing them the same pic. Unless she had a friend call me before to gather info which is also possible. I don't really care. I sure as hell did not even know she was a working girl till she said this client is for you and I regonised him!)

Point I am trying to make is I work alone. I don't work with anyone and no one is my friend. Yes I do have friends and those I will work with I have mentioned and recommended publicly on forum.

I don't know why a client would be discussing a girl or ask about a girl when with another girl. I get asked a million times is there other ladies in same place. Most of the time I don't know if there is or isnt as I dont mix and dont go walzing around I honestly don't even check sites to see who might be in my area.. that's how little I care about who is where. So I can honestly say I don't know. And sometimes even if I do know that there is one here. I still say I don't know. Who is here ain't my business if you as a client want to know if there is a other ladies around phone them and ask them where they are.

Unless me and a lady have an understanding between us that it is okay to refer clients I will never ever do that. I have not once reffered a client to a lady without knowing she would not mind if a client referral came from me.

Gosh don't even know if any of this will make sense to anyone but I wanted to put this out there.

Discretion is something that seems to be lacking in both punters and SPs alike.

What an odd episode. I'm surprised you had that much patience for a chronic no-show. That lack of discretion you mentioned reminded me of what Lesley shared about girls at a venue handing out her personal info to a client. Seems it's every woman for herself.

Geez Louise! Commend you for your patience. That could potentially be dangerous. Can only imagine this scenario...very weird!

I think it sadly comes from a lack of respect. Wgs don't respect their fellow sp's and punters not respecting the sp's hence the lack of discretion

On 2021-05-17 17:56:38 Good2bbad said:
I think it sadly comes from a lack of respect. Wgs don't respect their fellow sp's and punters not respecting the sp's hence the lack of discretion

Lack of respect, craving for attention, not always sure which is worse of the two behaviours.

He is a idiot, plain and simple.

It was a experience.. luckily it is over..;)

But unlike certain people are trying to insinuate this post is attention seeking, it is far from that.. ;)

I like putting unique experience up here as I think if I share things it will educate others in this industry or help them avoid getting into the same situations.

On 2021-05-17 17:48:58 modnarmodnar said:
What an odd episode. I'm surprised you had that much patience for a chronic no-show. That lack of discretion you mentioned reminded me of what Lesley shared about girls at a venue handing out her personal info to a client. Seems it's every woman for herself.

I am a very patient person and will always give people more chances than they deserve.

On 2021-05-17 17:56:38 Good2bbad said:
I think it sadly comes from a lack of respect. Wgs don't respect their fellow sp's and punters not respecting the sp's hence the lack of discretion

Agreed 100 % personally if that happens to me once you are on the shit list for good no turning back especially if you are a new client.

I do give cancelations (not people who were disrespectful of me my business and my time and don't have the decency to pick up the phone and cancel however one chance is all they get the second time around) the benefit of doubt once and only once, if it has happened 2 or more times in my books you made the shit list as a wanker.

Actually I have in the past shit listed regulars for not respecting my time and my business. I even had a regular phone me for months apologizing and asking me to give him another chance. I did after making him beg for 4 months lol needless to say he never done that again :) guess he learnt :)