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I've spoken to a few service providers who thought that we pay a premium to be Gold Members and a review from a Gold Member made them feel warm and fuzzy inside. They were all disappointed to learn how much the monthly Gold Membership fee is, haha!
The reason I use Gold Membership is because it makes navigating the website easier:
- it helps me keep track of my regulars. When their ads are active or inactive. And for those who travel a lot, I'll know when we are in the same city because I move around a lot due to my business.
- it helps me keep track ladies on my "to visit" list.
- the HD pics and being able to access previous photosets. This can give some insight into hygiene. And I have a foot fetish, so those HD features come in handy.
- service provider private gallery pictures. Some ladies with drug or drinking habits accidentally post revealing pictures on there and it saves me the trip and time because I pass and move on to the next lady.
- I can make notes where there are duplicate ads for the same service provider.
- I can add a comment if necessary on the service provider's wall if I'm not reviewing.
- I have discovered some gems (service providers that fly under the radar) from comments made by other Gold Members on their walls.
- the GM forum is less of a cesspool and there are no service providers there to hijack threads. Sometimes sticking to the topic saves a lot of time. There's more to this forum but I won't get into that.
On 2026-05-23 11:58:28 Littlerascal said:
I think some might be confused about the Gold Membership. It's nothing to boast about, but some use it to boast and to try solicit freebies from service providers.
I've spoken to a few service providers who thought that we pay a premium to be Gold Members and a review from a Gold Member made them feel warm and fuzzy inside. They were all disappointed to learn how much the monthly Gold Membership fee is, haha!
The reason I use Gold Membership is because it makes navigating the website easier:
- it helps me keep track of my regulars. When their ads are active or inactive. And for those who travel a lot, I'll know when we are in the same city because I move around a lot due to my business.
- it helps me keep track ladies on my "to visit" list.
- the HD pics and being able to access previous photosets. This can give some insight into hygiene. And I have a foot fetish, so those HD features come in handy.
- service provider private gallery pictures. Some ladies with drug or drinking habits accidentally post revealing pictures on there and it saves me the trip and time because I pass and move on to the next lady.
- I can make notes where there are duplicate ads for the same service provider.
- I can add a comment if necessary on the service provider's wall if I'm not reviewing.
- I have discovered some gems (service providers that fly under the radar) from comments made by other Gold Members on their walls.
- the GM forum is less of a cesspool and there are no service providers there to hijack threads. Sometimes sticking to the topic saves a lot time. There's more to this forum but I won't get into that.
100% on the money, and worth every cent.
On 2026-05-23 13:01:15 Pumpkineater said:
It must be a sausage fest on the gold forum then.
Unsolicited advice for the day. Don't be a doos, be Lekker.
Nobody is saying you should get GM, and nobody is saying you're any less for not having it or that GM's are more important. Not sure why some of the non GM's keep taking exception or make snide comments.
The question was essentially why have it, and some of us have expressed our reasons and the benefits to us. If that doesn't interest you and you don't see the benefit, then we can both go on with our day without needing to justify one over the other?
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On 2026-05-23 16:36:21 semensquirter said:
**SIGH***...I miss my favourites list and my private notes.
Squirter, long time!
On 2026-05-23 15:54:45 The_Unicorn_Chaser said:
On 2026-05-23 13:01:15 Pumpkineater said: It must be a sausage fest on the gold forum then.
Unsolicited advice for the day. Don't be a doos, be Lekker.
Nobody is saying you should get GM, and nobody is saying you're any less for not having it or that GM's are more important. Not sure why some of the non GM's keep taking exception or make snide comments.
The question was essentially why have it, and some of us have expressed our reasons and the benefits to us. If that doesn't interest you and you don't see the benefit, then we can both go on with our day without needing to justify one over the other?
Bro i wasnt being nasty. Its like going to a party and only guys show up. Hence the saying sausage fest. Or are there any female goldmembers around. Lets be honest tho. Chatting here is way better than chatting on the gold forum. Atleast here u can interact with the girls aswell, RIGHT?
Can tell you that it is a lot better to not have a thread hijacked by some SP who pretend to be not interested in ESA punters even though she does advertise on the platform.
The guys show a lot more respect towards each other and discussion stay on topic. Very seldom if ever does a topic gets hijack and sidetracked because of somebodies ego.
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