Hey all,

From the punters point of view what would you saw are acceptable reasons to cancel a booking. I'm talking about when you've arrived and something there makes you cancel.

For me, it's false advertising about age.

Let me know if cancelling is ok or you just push through no matter what cobwebs you find.

On 2026-05-22 05:30:19 BillToolman said:
Hey all,

From the punters point of view what would you saw are acceptable reasons to cancel a booking. I'm talking about when you've arrived and something there makes you cancel.

For me, it's false advertising about age.

Let me know if cancelling is ok or you just push through no matter what cobwebs you find.

If "age stated" is a problem you going to cancel 80% of you session.

For me its when the lady is intoxicated or under the influence of a substance to such an extend that she could not deliver to a proper session.

If it's a few years either way that's fine. I'm thinking advertised as 35 and ends up being closer to 50. That's a blatant misrepresentation.

Intoxication, 100%

How about the other way round? You are early 50s with the body of a 20 year old and all the young, rude and disrespectful neanderthals want to get with you? Eewwww.... they say age is nothing but a number? Really ? Not in my books. My younger brother is 47. No thanks but I do not cradle snatch.

On 2026-05-22 08:35:31 Harmony Hands said:
How about the other way round? You are early 50s with the body of a 20 year old and all the young, rude and disrespectful neanderthals want to get with you? Eewwww.... they say age is nothing but a number? Really ? Not in my books. My younger brother is 47. No thanks but I do not cradle snatch.

So you have an age requirement for your client? That's completely your prerogative and how you run your business is totally up to you. Also, respect of the client to yourself is critical and I suppose you'd pick that up in the conversation when a booking is made.

Would you turn a client away if he said he was 50 but arrived and was 25?

In a heart beat cos he lied to me....I dont cater to anyone younger than me. It's a thing with me. This is the reason for a good Whatsapp chat before we meet.

On 2026-05-22 08:47:31 Harmony Hands said:
In a heart beat cos he lied to me....I dont cater to anyone younger than me. It's a thing with me. This is the reason for a good Whatsapp chat before we meet.

Thanks for sharing!

I've never canceled a booking on arrival. I push through even when I don't like what I see. And those bookings have actually turned out not bad.

I have, though, ghosted one lady. It was an evening booking and when I got to the house it looked quite dodgy and I then just drove past and ignored the lady's calls and I felt really bad about it. So the next day I hit her up, made an excuse and arranged a booking for that day. And oh boy oh boy, what an amazing punt it turned out to be. I now know the owner of the house personally and he sends me updates on which new ladies are renting at his place.

On 2026-05-22 08:35:31 Harmony Hands said:
How about the other way round? You are early 50s with the body of a 20 year old and all the young, rude and disrespectful neanderthals want to get with you? Eewwww.... they say age is nothing but a number? Really ? Not in my books. My younger brother is 47. No thanks but I do not cradle snatch.

So how old is "various" exactly?
:-)

It's rude to Ask a lady her age. And you are the kind of clientele that I with every fibre of my being, abhor.