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Re: Work VS Play
Posted: 2026-04-10 19:43:42
You'd spot the signs if your girl was an SP (expensive gifts, random work trips, randomly working late etc) because you're a punter exposed to this world.
I knew an SP that hid this part of her life from her boyfriend until she was eventually exposed by some crazy punter.
I always wondered what that poor oke must've thought because civilians just can't wrap their heads around this profession.
On 2026-04-10 14:57:44 J1982 said:
I wouldn't want to be the side guy/partner to be honest...
You'd spot the signs if your girl was an SP (expensive gifts, random work trips, randomly working late etc) because you're a punter exposed to this world.
I knew an SP that hid this part of her life from her boyfriend until she was eventually exposed by some crazy punter.
I always wondered what that poor oke must've thought because civilians just can't wrap their heads around this profession.
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Re: Work VS Play
Posted: 2026-04-10 20:01:52
Another topic on itself but just wondering how many of us are out there. Punters vs Civilians
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Re: Work VS Play
Posted: 2026-04-10 20:04:15
Hi all not sure if a lady input might give some idea ,
I can speak for myself only.
Long gone done with relationships and marriages
Single since 2011
I do my work or arrangement on clients reqest see him
alone .
But nothing else to complicate life .
Regards
A
I can speak for myself only.
Long gone done with relationships and marriages
Single since 2011
I do my work or arrangement on clients reqest see him
alone .
But nothing else to complicate life .
Regards
A
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Re: Work VS Play
Posted: 2026-04-10 20:53:13
Lets wait for jp69. He has an answer for every question. The forums very own Oricle
On 2026-04-10 20:01:52 Pipes9 said:
Another topic on itself but just wondering how many of us are out there. Punters vs Civilians
Lets wait for jp69. He has an answer for every question. The forums very own Oricle
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Re: Work VS Play
Posted: 2026-04-10 21:04:08
GRIN!!!!
RB.
On 2026-04-10 20:53:13 Pumpkineater said:
On 2026-04-10 20:01:52 Pipes9 said: Another topic on itself but just wondering how many of us are out there. Punters vs Civilians
Lets wait for jp69. He has an answer for every question. The forums very own Oricle
GRIN!!!!
RB.
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Re: Work VS Play
Posted: 2026-04-10 21:23:11
Oracle
JP69
On 2026-04-10 20:53:13 Pumpkineater said:
On 2026-04-10 20:01:52 Pipes9 said: Another topic on itself but just wondering how many of us are out there. Punters vs Civilians
Lets wait for jp69. He has an answer for every question. The forums very own Oricle
Oracle
JP69
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Re: Work VS Play
Posted: 2026-04-10 22:38:12
Correction ORICLE.
U not the REAL ORACLE. U just a knock off
U not the REAL ORACLE. U just a knock off
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Re: Work VS Play
Posted: 2026-04-10 22:53:37
@Aura, get that there's no dating or marriage or relationships.
But do you have your own sex on the side for your enjoyment outside of your work? There's no guy who you call over when you need that sexual release? Do you look for a booking to do that for you?
But do you have your own sex on the side for your enjoyment outside of your work? There's no guy who you call over when you need that sexual release? Do you look for a booking to do that for you?
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Re: Work VS Play
Posted: 2026-04-10 23:23:22
Well there's male escorts here too so maybe they would just hire someone like we do...
JP69
JP69
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Re: Work VS Play
Posted: 2026-04-11 08:13:47
@Syla
Thank u for your velued question:)
As I stated I like keep life simple, so no I have no side thing going
I enjoy some my regulars as we have amazing plays..
So keep short I get what I need from work from time to time
Rest I enjoy life myway.
Hope this help give u clarity
Nice thing bout this job ha ha
;)
Warm regards
A
Thank u for your velued question:)
As I stated I like keep life simple, so no I have no side thing going
I enjoy some my regulars as we have amazing plays..
So keep short I get what I need from work from time to time
Rest I enjoy life myway.
Hope this help give u clarity
Nice thing bout this job ha ha
;)
Warm regards
A
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