Wow some absolutely bitter comments on this thread. Makes me wonder what kind of ladies youre seeing that gave you that long list of "complaints"

I wouldn't speak for a client so maybe you should allow us to speak for ourselves in this regard?

From my point of view:
1. Arriving late without sending a message letting me know.
2. Walking in and immediately grabbing at my ass or trying to slide hands up my dress, this is before payment, before ive even gotten to just have a brief chat and establish what's what.
3. Not listening to the word no. You gents cant understand what its like when youre in that situation and you've said no to something and yet they keep pushing, it does not make me personally feel like I can be comfortable with that person.
4. Arriving and deciding to only do 30 min when they booked and confirmed for longer.
5. Showering, literally splashing the whole bathroom wet and then dropping your wet towel on the floor.

Just a few off the top of my head.

Xxx

On 2026-04-08 13:31:57 sircumsized said:
Silly silly woman do u honestly think id fall for that silly ploy lololol . You can take the egg off your face now lololol

lmao, you fell for it before (remember your recent ban, bwahaha!)...you arent too bright hey?

Todd, just give it a rest.
You must be really tired by now.

On 2026-04-08 13:52:32 Miss Megan said:
Todd, just give it a rest.
You must be really tired by now.

Todd settle :-) hahahaha

On 2026-04-08 13:44:43 Didi said:
Coming and stay almost 6 hours and leave hourly rate only,like what Mr . did don't be like Mr .

If you meet a lady who don't know how to be rude and chases you away,clock watcher,makes you feel comfortable doesn't mean you can take advantage of her

And when a lady start asking upfront payment and duration of the booking respect her decision cause some punters overstay and pay less rates after session.
And when you get blocked don't go and play a victim in her profile.

6 hours is crazy. I think though it's only fair that even 15 minutes after, the time and fees need to be brought up.

If the session is done and you're casually chatting to the guy, he probably thought that the transaction is done and you'll are just being two normal people being friendly and it's now outside of business so you would tell him when you've got something else to do and it's time to leave.

It's like waiting in the wrong queue and getting upset when the person can't help you. Just clear things up early. If you want to get paid for the extra time, tell him upfront and let him decide to stay or leave. Watch how fast he'll say goodbye when he realizes it's still business and not some imagined platonic connection. It's easy for punters to forget it's just business and think they're actually just connecting with another normal person that might actually just enjoy talking and spending time with them.

You did your job well and now poor guy thinks there's something real, lol. And you wasted 5 hours entertaining for free. Just tell them next time that you've gotta get back to work so if they wanna stay, they gotta pay. It's not rude at all. It's business.

JP69

On 2026-04-08 14:04:41 JackParrow69 said:
On 2026-04-08 13:44:43 Didi said: Coming and stay almost 6 hours and leave hourly rate only,like what Mr . did don't be like Mr .

If you meet a lady who don't know how to be rude and chases you away,clock watcher,makes you feel comfortable doesn't mean you can take advantage of her

And when a lady start asking upfront payment and duration of the booking respect her decision cause some punters overstay and pay less rates after session.
And when you get blocked don't go and play a victim in her profile.



6 hours is crazy. I think though it's only fair that even 15 minutes after, the time and fees need to be brought up.

If the session is done and you're casually chatting to the guy, he probably thought that the transaction is done and you'll are just being two normal people being friendly and it's now outside of business so you would tell him when you've got something else to do and it's time to leave.

It's like waiting in the wrong queue and getting upset when the person can't help you. Just clear things up early. If you want to get paid for the extra time, tell him upfront and let him decide to stay or leave. Watch how fast he'll say goodbye when he realizes it's still business and not some imagined platonic connection. It's easy for punters to forget it's just business and think they're actually just connecting with another normal person that might actually just enjoy talking and spending time with them.

You did your job well and now poor guy thinks there's something real, lol. And you wasted 5 hours entertaining for free. Just tell them next time that you've gotta get back to work so if they wanna stay, they gotta pay. It's not rude at all. It's business.

JP69

There was no upfront payment it was made after the session
And that whole 6hours Mr was on top didn't want to take a break..

On 2026-04-08 13:46:06 Courtney With Curves said:
Wow some absolutely bitter comments on this thread. Makes me wonder what kind of ladies youre seeing that gave you that long list of "complaints"

I wouldn't speak for a client so maybe you should allow us to speak for ourselves in this regard?

From my point of view:
1. Arriving late without sending a message letting me know.
2. Walking in and immediately grabbing at my ass or trying to slide hands up my dress, this is before payment, before ive even gotten to just have a brief chat and establish what's what.
3. Not listening to the word no. You gents cant understand what its like when youre in that situation and you've said no to something and yet they keep pushing, it does not make me personally feel like I can be comfortable with that person.
4. Arriving and deciding to only do 30 min when they booked and confirmed for longer.
5. Showering, literally splashing the whole bathroom wet and then dropping your wet towel on the floor.

Just a few off the top of my head.

Xxx

Actually agree with all of this except 4. This is something that happens. Asking time upfront is a difficult one of a punter has not visited you before. Sometimes they get there are only then seeing you for the first time realize that you're not their cup of tea, especially considering how far ESA pics are form the truth these days. So punters rather than walking a ay all together compromise and decide to just go with 30 minutes. It's a compromise with a win-win & lose-lose. You're both not getting everything you're expecting but you're both getting something.

Personally, I would book a 30 minutes if forced for time upfront and then after seeing them and seeing if they match my expectations and the vibe is right upon actually meeting, I would then ask if I could rather book an hour IF they have the availability after but most punters just get excited seeing the pics and really think that's exactly what they'll get so they honestly think they want to spend the hour but only find out they don't when they finally see you. This is more to do with the photographic false presentation or sometimes hygiene or health issues only discovered upon meeting than a punter intentionally backtracking.

JP69

On 2026-04-08 14:10:12 Didi said:
...

There was no upfront payment it was made after the session
And that whole 6hours Mr was on top didn't want to take a break..

Payment aside, was there no discussion up front as to how long he's booking for? It common practice to confirm at the start of the session how long the custom will be staying fornas there's differing rates for the usual 30 or 60 minutes so you both clear how how much will he paid after the session and how long it should be.

I mean without that discussion, I guy can easily come have a quickie for 10 minutes and then leave R166 if you charge R1,000/hr right?

I'm not sure how you got by this long but you need to discuss your rates and time upfront before you'll even take your clothes off.

JP69

Granted, if this is the reason to change the length, but I have found a few times it happens and they say they have less time than they thought they did, which i understand can happen. These guys actually always book again but it is still frustrating to have it happen.

Xxx


Actually agree with all of this except 4. This is something that happens. Asking time upfront is a difficult one of a punter has not visited you before. Sometimes they get there are only then seeing you for the first time realize that you're not their cup of tea, especially considering how far ESA pics are form the truth these days. So punters rather than walking a ay all together compromise and decide to just go with 30 minutes. It's a compromise with a win-win & lose-lose. You're both not getting everything you're expecting but you're both getting something.

Personally, I would book a 30 minutes if forced for time upfront and then after seeing them and seeing if they match my expectations and the vibe is right upon actually meeting, I would then ask if I could rather book an hour IF they have the availability after but most punters just get excited seeing the pics and really think that's exactly what they'll get so they honestly think they want to spend the hour but only find out they don't when they finally see you. This is more to do with the photographic false presentation or sometimes hygiene or health issues only discovered upon meeting than a punter intentionally backtracking.

JP69 [/QUOTE]

On 2026-04-08 14:25:40 JackParrow69 said:
On 2026-04-08 14:10:12 Didi said: ...

There was no upfront payment it was made after the session
And that whole 6hours Mr was on top didn't want to take a break..

Payment aside, was there no discussion up front as to how long he's booking for? It common practice to confirm at the start of the session how long the custom will be staying fornas there's differing rates for the usual 30 or 60 minutes so you both clear how how much will he paid after the session and how long it should be.

I mean without that discussion, I guy can easily come have a quickie for 10 minutes and then leave R166 if you charge R1,000/hr right?

I'm not sure how you got by this long but you need to discuss your rates and time upfront before you'll even take your clothes off.

JP69

The details was mentioned over WhatsApp and l did mentioned if he overstayed they will be additional fees..Duration of his visit but he ignored it and made a booking.
If you WhatsApp me all my details goes automatic and punter will confirm the duration of the session .But because of his ego he decided to leave less,l could've fought him but he's a man and l am independent no protection so it was not worthy a fight but just to let him go.but after that l am asking upfront payments..he did say he will add but didn't..