Based on my experience, I would venture some suggestions, based on my interactions with the ladies:

Turn offs for the ladies/SPs

1. Horrible body odour/lack of hygiene - like dudes who don't clean their ass properly.

2. Shitty attittude and demanding services, even if the client is offputting.

3. The expectation that all SPs provide full house, anal and everything that a pornstar would do.

4. Demanding services for free since the client has been "a long time customer" or "is a gold member on ESA".

5. Candidly and rudely commenting on SPs bodies.

6. Agreeing to a price and then trying to undercut the agreed-upon price afer the service is provided.

7. Repeatedly pushing boundaries after they have been explained.

8. Trying to form a relationship with an SP or dating outside of working hours, to get free services.

9. Asking SPs to purchase items that the client wants her to wear for him.

10. Trying to "rescue" SPs from their circumstances or saying things like "you are too nice for this industry".

I'm surprised more ladies aren't commenting, as this is supposed to be their chance at pointing out ways for punters to have better bookings. A bit disappointing.

On 2026-04-07 13:44:45 Dixxy said:
I'm surprised more ladies aren't commenting, as this is supposed to be their chance at pointing out ways for punters to have better bookings. A bit disappointing.

Coz it's like that dick size question that keeps coming up. If they actually say they like and prefer big dicks, 95% of the clients will feel inadequate and stop booking them. If they say they like small dicks, everyone will know they just love about everything. If they say they like average dicks and big dicks are too big and hurt etc, then they turn away the big dicks they want. There's just no winning when telling a prospective clients who pays the cash that you don't like something about them.

It's like most women think any guy that HAS to pay for sex is a total fucking loser and generally disgusting, especially those that buy content and she'd never want to fuck them in real life but for the sake of the money, they will lie and pretend straight to your face and every forum possible to get paid. They just can't tell the clients how they really feel so they just call them true gentleman and shit like that.

JP69

On 2026-04-06 19:24:37 Dixxy said:
Danika started an interesting thread that I think would be worth following.

Her original comment:

Since there's a thread about what's immediately off-putting about an SP, I think it's only fair we flip it. From an SP's side---let's talk about the things clients do that instantly kill the the vibe making your clit retreat?!

The link to the original thread is below but I think it would be better served under the general forum?

www.esa.co.za/forum/thread.php

What people say and do are two differant things. This post was started by a punter expecting the girls to respond. Jp69 mentioned everything as if he is a working girl. Sometimes i wonder cause he knows alot. I suggest go for what jp69 said and if the shoe fits wear it or do better and change ur ways.

Coochie if u dont agree on some of the points jp69 mentioned are u taking bookings from clients. Cause how would u know.

About dick sizes. I think even if u have a pimple for a dick. Aslong as u pay its gonna be the biggest she has seen in her life.

I disagreed with the part of having a different looking body after having children. That's the whole point of showing yourself in the pictures. Then just because i finished 15 minutes early means I should leave immediately? Surely if it's that early then there's nothing wrong with just cuddling.

Wait so old, fat, hairy and ugly are not a problem at all?

I once asked a WG how her customers were and she said they were mostly good. So I asked her what criteria she used to determine if a customer was a good or bad, she said, the bad ones asked for raw sex and the good ones didn't, lol.

Interesting r2d4 very interesting insight lolololol

On 2026-04-07 18:59:04 sircumsized said:
Interesting r2d4 very interesting insight lolololol

What was the insight my retarded friend?

On 2026-04-07 15:50:58 Coochie.Pounder1 said:
I disagreed with the part of having a different looking body after having children. That's the whole point of showing yourself in the pictures. Then just because i finished 15 minutes early means I should leave immediately? Surely if it's that early then there's nothing wrong with just cuddling.

You'll do realize my whole post was satire right???

Basically depicting the shit we punters deal with and get judged and called assholes for and how the ladies validate this shit in their heads coz everything said there was pure shit that punters deal with but ladies see no problem in scamming or stealing punters money using those excuses and that type of reasoning.

JP69