On 2026-03-31 07:29:28 R2D4 said:
On 2026-03-30 19:09:38 Amour No 1 (mobile Massage The said: Very interesting topic here.

I know 2 beautiful ladies from this site, they find husbands and they very happy, living a normal life like everyone.

My advice to all my gentleman's,when you find love in this site, please be serious, honest, respectful to the lady and to your relationship.

1) Delete your membership
2) Forcus on her and make her happy.
3) Take good care of her meaning her needs, beauty, take care out for shopping also give her a montly allowance

4) Don't use her, make sure you don't hurt her bcoz she's human not a toy or a machine. If you don't love her , don't pretend or waist her time, let her go and move on with your life.

Love is good communications, build strong connections between you 2 then respect and care will follow automatically.

5)Then your relationship will progress and grow to marriage and family.

All the best gents


Kisses


I read this and all I see is one way traffic. What does the man get out of all of this? if its just sex, he is better off being a punter and she is better of being a WG.

"3) Take good care of her meaning her needs, beauty, take care out for shopping also give her a montly allowance "

So basically in your worldview the man needs to be her atm. If she wants to go shopping to take care of her needs and beauty she needs to make her own income.

"4) Don't use her, make sure you don't hurt her bcoz she's human not a toy or a machine. If you don't love her , don't pretend or waist her time, let her go and move on with your life."

But in point 3 you made, you are okay with her using him??

No i didn't mean she must use him.
In general i was talking about man duty.
If you want her to work and make her own income then have good communications with her from the start then if she doesn't find a job ? What will you do ? You will still look after her!! Or your relationship with her is over!


There's same man out there whant her on he's side and he will give her anything she want.

So it's depends of man's mentality and responsibility and also the agreement they both have if he as money, he will not mind to give her pocket money montly bcoz if she's doesn't have money, you will be unhappy.

Same apply to her, if she's happy with him , she will take good care of him, she will not use him or hurt him.

That was my Point!!

On 2026-03-31 08:01:56 SuckMe2 said:
No I would not date a MG/WG, that would be stupid, and
Amour no 1 just us the answer why not. I would be nothing more than a walking ATM.

No honey, you won't be an ATM to her , hahaha , ask her what she want to do in her life , ask her questions, she's human,if you like her, assist her , support her in what she want to become or do in her life to get her income so don't be afraid to date bcoz you will an ATM ! Success of relationship is communications that's all.

Have a good day .

Mwaaaah!

On 2026-03-31 08:47:58 Miss Barbie Doll said:
On 2026-03-31 08:01:56 SuckMe2 said: No I would not date a MG/WG, that would be stupid, and
Amour no 1 just us the answer why not. I would be nothing more than a walking ATM.


Lol then you will marry her by fire by force,please contact your dearest Pastor we are getting married on Easter hahahahahahahahahaha

I bring the malebe and mabele on the table:)

Hahaha, oh dear you make me laugh.

On 2026-03-31 09:27:40 Amour No 1 (mobile Massage The said:
On 2026-03


Hahaha, oh dear you make me laugh.

Laughing is good for our health hahaha

In my experience, it always ends. For different reasons but most of it related to the complicated lives they lead.

SP #1 was your typical Ice Tropez baddie. It was fun until I had to carry her home after spending 4k at the club and she ended up throwing on the hotel bed. This one was around mostly for the money. The sex got worse as well. She got out of the industry and then threw it away by drinking on duty and now she's back here.

SP #2 is an interesting one. The sex is out of this world, the feelings are genuine, she's one of the sweetest ladies around and she is girlfriend-material unlike SP #1. But she is incredibly clingy and in need of constant help (financial and non-financial). She's almost 30 but probably has the maturity of an 18 year old at times. Also prone to at least 1 emotional breakdown per week. Her life is incredibly tough so I don't blame her.

SP #3 is not one I actually dated but lines were blurred. Chemistry in bed was good but it was the chemistry out of the bedroom that was off the charts. Unfortunately, she was a professional hoe, the type that had men (in and out of the punting world) wrapped around her fingers. I knew I wasn't one of them to her but insecurity is a mf. The last straw was when she was going out in public with an obese 70-something year old man she was practically sold to for a small bag. If she could do that then going out with me was light work for her. Never saw her the same after that.

I miss SP #3 the most. Sessions were un-rushed and fun. I lost a great SP because I blurred lines and great SPs are hard to find.

A lesson learned which is why there will never be a SP #4.

I probably would, and nearly have (I declined an explicit offer, based on my concerns about a bit of a volatile temperament, not her job).

What I would struggle to deal with though, is not the good days but the bad days when she has been mistreated (either verbally or physically) by one of the many, many assholes who frequent this industry. I'm not sure I'm resilient enough to be the emotional support structure for someone going through that sort of thing so regularly.

I still think for the right person I'd try though. I think its possible with open communication and just treating it like any other job, because that's what it is to them: just a job.

But of the ladies I've booked I think there's 1 (maaaaaaybe 2) where there is enough chemistry and personality-alignment where I would be interested in doing so, and she is quite far out of my league in the real world. I'm like a 7 (in my age bracket), and she's off the flippen charts stunning (in any bracket). And there's a bit of an age gap that might cause issues. So probably best to just keep indulging in the fantasy she is selling.

Reading through the last few threads, most of the concerns seem to come down to a few key fears --- and honestly, they're understandable, but not unique to this situation.

The "ATM" concern comes up a lot. But the truth is, that risk exists in any relationship. If one person is giving and the other is only taking, it won't work long-term. In a healthy setup, both people should be contributing in their own ways and building toward something together. If you can't, then what's the use.

Then there's the issue of blurred lines. In this industry, affection and attention can be part of the job, so it's natural to question what's real. That's why trust becomes critical --- if you can't genuinely trust her, the relationship won't survive.

The emotional side is another big one. The reality is, you can't shield her from the nature of her work. So you either accept that and make peace with it, or you both work toward a shared goal where things change over time. But going in thinking you can control or "rescue" the situation is a mistake.

Power dynamics also get mentioned --- but in a proper relationship, that shouldn't even become a thing. It's not about who gives more or who owes what. It's about balance and mutual respect. Ask yourself, do you really love her...

And all of this circles back to one thing: trust. Without it, none of it works --- not here, not in any relationship.

At the end of the day, it's still just two people falling in love. The feelings are real, but what you both do to make this work is what actually determines whether the relationship survives or falls apart.

Do you guys have to write novels?

On 2026-03-31 19:23:25 Miss Barbie Doll said:
Do you guys have to write novels?

Oh sorry... short answer is YES, date the shit out of each other

On 2026-03-31 19:30:03 Leeu loop said:
On 2026-03-31 19:23:25 Miss Barbie Doll said: Do you guys have to write novels?
Oh sorry... short answer is YES, date the shit out of each other

Let's get married i come with silly dog hahaha