She doesnt deserve your money, no matter how good her pussy is. Keep it moving

It all depends if u are black and she is white or u are white and she is black or u are white and she is white or u are black and she is black.
All that wil depend on how offended or not offended u were.

U need to decide what u want to do. We cant decide for u. Talk about politics is such a mood spoiler

You guys are the best! The advice and some DMs have been filled with honesty, hard truths, and much needed humour.

Thanks everyone


I actually reached out to her this morning telling her how our chat made me feel. She was extremely apologetic, but we left it at that. No blame or issues or anything. Just a mature chat.

I don't think I will be seeing her again though.

To the OP. Man up, grow a pair and stop being a fucking pussy. You sound like a whiny little bitch. FFS who the fuck gives a shit what she said. If I call you fat you will probably go sit in a corner and shit your nappie. Maybe you should go see a shemale and get ass rushed. I cannot believe you are butt hurt by shit like this. Gawd!

On 2026-03-17 15:05:05 Griffindude said:
To the OP. Man up, grow a pair and stop being a fucking pussy. You sound like a whiny little bitch. FFS who the fuck gives a shit what she said. If I call you fat you will probably go sit in a corner and shit your nappie. Maybe you should go see a shemale and get ass rushed. I cannot believe you are butt hurt by shit like this. Gawd!

Come on buddy. Give the guy a break. He needed advice and came on the forum. If you are shitting on a fellow punter, then there is no hope for timid advertisers to say shit here. Thank goodness I'm not timid Thomas.

Sex is chemistry. Whether we care to admit it or not.

Your relationship with her might be transactional but it lasted this long because of chemistry.

Now that that's fvcked, I don't see how you'll ever feel comfortable around her.

Big ups to you though ...

It is this type of insecure bullshit that fucks up nations. Either the guy needs to man up properly or he is trying to start an attention seeking thread by race baiting. Either way, what is he butt hurt about? Fuck all. It's not like he was going to marry the WG. He was NOT seeking advice. I fucking guarantee it. So no, I will not give him or anyone else like this a break. What is this, faking cry on my shoulder time? Se poes with that.

On 2026-03-17 15:38:35 Harmony Hands said:
On 2026-03-17 15:05:05 Griffindude said: To the OP. Man up, grow a pair and stop being a fucking pussy. You sound like a whiny little bitch. FFS who the fuck gives a shit what she said. If I call you fat you will probably go sit in a corner and shit your nappie. Maybe you should go see a shemale and get ass rushed. I cannot believe you are butt hurt by shit like this. Gawd!

Come on buddy. Give the guy a break. He needed advice and came on the forum. If you are shitting on a fellow punter, then there is no hope for timid advertisers to say shit here. Thank goodness I'm not timid Thomas.

On 2026-03-18 06:33:00 Griffindude said:
It is this type of insecure bullshit that fucks up nations. Either the guy needs to man up properly or he is trying to start an attention seeking thread by race baiting. Either way, what is he butt hurt about? Fuck all. It's not like he was going to marry the WG. He was NOT seeking advice. I fucking guarantee it. So no, I will not give him or anyone else like this a break. What is this, faking cry on my shoulder time? Se poes with that.

On 2026-03-17 15:38:35 Harmony Hands said: On 2026-03-17 15:05:05 Griffindude said: To the OP. Man up, grow a pair and stop being a fucking pussy. You sound like a whiny little bitch. FFS who the fuck gives a shit what she said.

Settle down brother!

Why so angry?

Did someone hurt you, or is this just what happens when you realise you have nothing real to offer?

The energy you putting into tearing users down online really says everything about what's going on in your offline life.

It's fascinating that this is how you choose to spend your time on this platform.

Hope you things getting better for you.

On 2026-03-16 17:59:51 depends69 said:
I have a regular lady who I visit about 2-3 times a month. She is hot, excellent service and super accommodating. We have good chemistry on the bed.

The thing is, at my last visit she said some super racist stuff and was heavy into issues around white genocide in SA, pro US ambassador, and how the US needs to "take out" the K (yes that word was actually used) politicians.

This was the pillow talk after the deed, so I smiled, showered and left. But I felt bad about myself the whole day after and I was actually upset. I could not believe that she was so right-wing in her views. Previously she was always anti-ANC and the government, like we all are most times. But this was different.

I don't think I can visit her again. I also believe that she was serious in a moment when she let her guard down.

Do I move along or realised that I'm here for the sex not the conversation?

For me personally, the moment someone uses the K-word, it's an immediate turn-off, whether I'm paying or not. I have zero tolerance for racism in any form. It raises serious concerns about their mindset and professionalism. In any line of work, especially one that involves interacting with clients, there should be a basic level of respect and discretion.

It also makes you question their intentions,whether they're trying to push some kind of agenda, however unlikely that may seem. At the end of the day, just because I'm paying doesn't mean I'll compromise on standards. I choose carefully, and respect is non-negotiable.

The first rule of this business is that you NEVER believe a word that a WG speaks. Never. End of lesson.