Beautiful Didi.

Like you frustration makes me want to vomit.
This is a derailment but, needs to be said.

Our privilege to post on the general forum being taken away from us, without doubt can be put at our doorstep.

Esa told us not to do something and we ignored it.


Maybe just maybe some of us shall be afforded the opportunity of openly posting on the general forum.

I think many SP's could contribute in an engaging fashion and an interesting one too.


For eg. You and Ms Given too ...just to name 2 awesome SP forum contributors.

Yep...RB going off at the mouth again....smile.

RB.

On 2026-02-19 12:53:28 Griffindude said:
Are your really asking? Geez? Ok, it's simple. A fool and his money are soon parted. In what way does it make financial sense to give money to someone you don't know with absolutely zero verifiable credibility, also no guarantee that you will get what you paid for? Doing this is weak and retarded. See, not so difficult.

On 2026-02-19 12:33:24 Russian Bridgitte said: GriffinDude...

Why are they "weak and retarded"?




RB.

Considering your interaction on the forum, I am not surprised how u think and see things.

It makes perfect sense in your world.

But. You still have not answered the question.

Let's leave it there.


RB.

On 2026-02-19 12:07:56 Griffindude said:
Yup. I don't even pay upfront when buying something from a legitimate company whereby there is legal recourse in the form consumer protection should you require money back or refund for products/services not rendered. I would have to be completely mentally retarded to trust anyone in this industry with my money knowing that not only is the recipient of such monies someone I definitely do not trust, but she is also engaging in what the law of the land determines as illegal activities. Nobody in their right mind would risk investing their money in something that has a huge potential to yield zero return on that investment. It is simple common logic that there is and never will be anything resembling a deposit in this industry. It is a total gamble at best and even then the odds are totally stacked against the punter.

On 2026-02-19 10:16:05 grantmax1979 said: Deposit? No way.

Not legal doesn't mean we are nor professional or skilled or brain dead.

Some sell service and time.
That's not illegal.

Deposits are required often in very many skilled or unskilled service and manufacture economies.

10% for my time= equates to less than R200 risk for you and R1300 to R1500 for me.
So retarded is not taking taking a deposit in my case.

On 2026-02-19 12:14:59 NickNailer said:
Too many guys waste a lady's time by not pitching for an agreed session. The lady could have agreed to see another client in that time so it is lost income for her. Her time is money. If you have an alternate way to ensure a lady doesn't lose that income when a guy cancels at the last minute let's hear it.

I will vouch for Ms Given. She will only screw you for your money in the most fun ways possible.

Thank you and deeply felt with much gratitude

On 2026-02-19 12:34:45 Russian Bridgitte said:
Ms Given


The name suits you.

Blessings.

RB.

Thank you for noticing.
Misgivings.
One realise at some point that there are to many variables and sageing is left to the Sages.

On 2026-02-19 12:07:56 Griffindude said:
Yup. I don't even pay upfront when buying something from a legitimate company whereby there is legal recourse in the form consumer protection should you require money back or refund for products/services not rendered. I would have to be completely mentally retarded to trust anyone in this industry with my money knowing that not only is the recipient of such monies someone I definitely do not trust, but she is also engaging in what the law of the land determines as illegal activities. Nobody in their right mind would risk investing their money in something that has a huge potential to yield zero return on that investment. It is simple common logic that there is and never will be anything resembling a deposit in this industry. It is a total gamble at best and even then the odds are totally stacked against the punter.

On 2026-02-19 10:16:05 grantmax1979 said: Deposit? No way.

Why would u write such a long message telling everyone how u live your life. So what if u dont do that. Each to there own but like ms given said. Not all girls on here are scammers. Just like not all guys on here are scammers. If a guy wants to book in advance and wants to pay a deposit let him be. Its his money. Also why girls dont want to take bookings in advance is all because of us as punters. We fucked it up. Like Nicknailer said timewasters and also guys calling at 1 or 3 in the morning wanting to make an advance booking. If girls ask a dep so be it. Its there business. And they stil working so clearly there are guys paying deposits. They just dont share it with the rest of the world and also, the girls dont tell us how we must run our businesses so why do we tell them how to run theirs.

Rb. This guy probably only pays after the booking just incase he didnt get the return in his investment he wanted.

Weak and retarded. Dude u pay for sex. U even a gold member.
Lol. Like i said in a previous post. Each to there own. No need to call them names. U not that perfect either.

I have done exactly that. Answered the question. Besides, the whole world operates the way I mentioned so it is not my world as you so stupidly put it.

On 2026-02-19 13:01:04 Russian Bridgitte said:
On 2026-02-19 12:53:28 Griffindude said: Are your really asking? Geez? Ok, it's simple. A fool and his money are soon parted. In what way does it make financial sense to give money to someone you don't know with absolutely zero verifiable credibility, also no guarantee that you will get what you paid for? Doing this is weak and retarded. See, not so difficult.

On 2026-02-19 12:33:24 Russian Bridgitte said: GriffinDude...

Why are they "weak and retarded"?




RB.


Considering your interaction on the forum, I am not surprised how u think and see things.

It makes perfect sense in your world.

But. You still have not answered the question.

Let's leave it there.


RB.

I never told anyone how to or what to do with their money. They can do as they please. I merely stated that I will not do the weak or retarded thing as to give someone money for nothing in the hope I get something. I never said everyone has to subscribe to my methods. There will always be stupid people that do their own thing. I don't care what stupid people do. I am not them. I don't care who you think is not a scammer or who you think is. I really don't give a shit. You do you and I will do me. Implying that I should trust someone on this site is futile. You are farting against thunder. I don't trust anyone here. Do you get it now?

On 2026-02-19 13:43:01 Pumpkineater said:
On 2026-02-19 12:07:56 Griffindude said: Yup. I don't even pay upfront when buying something from a legitimate company whereby there is legal recourse in the form consumer protection should you require money back or refund for products/services not rendered. I would have to be completely mentally retarded to trust anyone in this industry with my money knowing that not only is the recipient of such monies someone I definitely do not trust, but she is also engaging in what the law of the land determines as illegal activities. Nobody in their right mind would risk investing their money in something that has a huge potential to yield zero return on that investment. It is simple common logic that there is and never will be anything resembling a deposit in this industry. It is a total gamble at best and even then the odds are totally stacked against the punter.

On 2026-02-19 10:16:05 grantmax1979 said: Deposit? No way.

Why would u write such a long message telling everyone how u live your life. So what if u dont do that. Each to there own but like ms given said. Not all girls on here are scammers. Just like not all guys on here are scammers. If a guy wants to book in advance and wants to pay a deposit let him be. Its his money. Also why girls dont want to take bookings in advance is all because of us as punters. We fucked it up. Like Nicknailer said timewasters and also guys calling at 1 or 3 in the morning wanting to make an advance booking. If girls ask a dep so be it. Its there business. And they stil working so clearly there are guys paying deposits. They just dont share it with the rest of the world and also, the girls dont tell us how we must run our businesses so why do we tell them how to run theirs.

Dude dude dude. No one implied anything and no one said u must trust anyone on this site. We as weak and retarded fuckers will do what we do and u can do you. Easy. We all cant be like u. Wny are u getting so worked up anyway.