It is good when a punter posts his confusion.

For many reasons.

What a pity SP's cannot post on the general forum anymore and start topics for discussion and getting to know each other better...i mean punters and SP's...to me even better than the review system could ever be...even when heated.

Sharing and communication brings understanding of each others frustrations.

Querying brings answers and with that possible solutions.

Hearing from the "horses" mouth rather than subjective views, assumptions and presumption brings understanding.

It also helps the less experienced navigate ...both punter and SP....further interaction and enjoyment mutually agreed upon and honored.

It helps sift out the timewasters, scammers and hagglers...on both sides of the fence.

As to the SP...she IS the business and will navigate it the best way it suits her.


It may be a world of cloak and dagger but I still stands by my belief that integrity exists as does an "honour among thieves. "

RB.

On 2026-02-19 10:16:05 grantmax1979 said:
Deposit? No way.

Great.
You do you.

On 2026-02-19 11:05:50 Russian Bridgitte said:
It is good when a punter posts his confusion.

For many reasons.

What a pity SP's cannot post on the general forum anymore and start topics for discussion and getting to know each other better...i mean punters and SP's...to me even better than the review system could ever be...even when heated.

Sharing and communication brings understanding of each others frustrations.

Querying brings answers and with that possible solutions.

Hearing from the "horses" mouth rather than subjective views, assumptions and presumption brings understanding.

It also helps the less experienced navigate ...both punter and SP....further interaction and enjoyment mutually agreed upon and honored.

It helps sift out the timewasters, scammers and hagglers...on both sides of the fence.

As to the SP...she IS the business and will navigate it the best way it suits her.


It may be a world of cloak and dagger but I still stands by my belief that integrity exists as does an "honour among thieves. "

RB.

Thumbs up.

Yup. I don't even pay upfront when buying something from a legitimate company whereby there is legal recourse in the form consumer protection should you require money back or refund for products/services not rendered. I would have to be completely mentally retarded to trust anyone in this industry with my money knowing that not only is the recipient of such monies someone I definitely do not trust, but she is also engaging in what the law of the land determines as illegal activities. Nobody in their right mind would risk investing their money in something that has a huge potential to yield zero return on that investment. It is simple common logic that there is and never will be anything resembling a deposit in this industry. It is a total gamble at best and even then the odds are totally stacked against the punter.

On 2026-02-19 10:16:05 grantmax1979 said:
Deposit? No way.

Too many guys waste a lady's time by not pitching for an agreed session. The lady could have agreed to see another client in that time so it is lost income for her. Her time is money. If you have an alternate way to ensure a lady doesn't lose that income when a guy cancels at the last minute let's hear it.

I will vouch for Ms Given. She will only screw you for your money in the most fun ways possible.

Dude, I don't have a suggestion for guys that don't show up for a booking. To this I say "shit happens". Guys stand up girls and girls stand up guys so it goes both ways. I do, however, know that so called "deposits" is something that I will never be stupid enough to do. I leave that for the weak and retarded. Further to this, and no offense but, I have no idea who you are and don't trust you either so your vouching for someone else I don't trust means less than zero to me.

[QUOTE;5944809;NickNailer] Too many guys waste a lady's time by not pitching for an agreed session. The lady could have agreed to see another client in that time so it is lost income for her. Her time is money. If you have an alternate way to ensure a lady doesn't lose that income when a guy cancels at the last minute let's hear it.

I will vouch for Ms Given. She will only screw you for your money in the most fun ways possible.[/QUOTE]

GriffinDude...

Why are they "weak and retarded"?




RB.

Ms Given


The name suits you.

Blessings.

RB.

On 2026-02-19 12:25:28 Griffindude said:
Dude, I don't have a suggestion for guys that don't show up for a booking. To this I say "shit happens". Guys stand up girls and girls stand up guys so it goes both ways. I do, however, know that so called "deposits" is something that I will never be stupid enough to do. I leave that for the weak and retarded. Further to this, and no offense but, I have no idea who you are and don't trust you either so your vouching for someone else I don't trust means less than zero to me.

[QUOTE;5944809;NickNailer] Too many guys waste a lady's time by not pitching for an agreed session. The lady could have agreed to see another client in that time so it is lost income for her. Her time is money. If you have an alternate way to ensure a lady doesn't lose that income when a guy cancels at the last minute let's hear it.

I will vouch for Ms Given. She will only screw you for your money in the most fun ways possible.

[/QUOTE]


If it's the case let ESA open a public forum were both parties post details of time wasters and scammers!
Cause as an advertiser it's easy to be banned if l took your money in advance and not deliver the services and there's no way an advertiser who has a good reputation risk her/his profile for less amount...

And don't came here and complain about us not taking your bookings.because once you screw one or two of us we will know you..

Are your really asking? Geez? Ok, it's simple. A fool and his money are soon parted. In what way does it make financial sense to give money to someone you don't know with absolutely zero verifiable credibility, also no guarantee that you will get what you paid for? Doing this is weak and retarded. See, not so difficult.

On 2026-02-19 12:33:24 Russian Bridgitte said:
GriffinDude...

Why are they "weak and retarded"?




RB.