On 2023-03-17 09:48:20 Erin ( The Original) said:
I used to rent a room from Benjamins years ago

The owner is lovely! She knows how to run a good venue as well with a nice warm energy always ! I can guarantee that clients are all safe and secure at Benjamins <3

Loyalty!!! Fk! So scarce I hardly recognized it!
Sarcasm aside (although it is a pity that we see so little of it);
Good on you Erin! So many people with short memories for the good and elephant-like memories for the bad.
Keep up the positive attitude!

Confession Time:
My biggest mistake????

~Trusting people in this industry TO ACTUALLY fucking care!!!!!

90% of the issues in this industry, is the people around you!!!

Yes , I do agree this industry HAS a lot of challenges, but that is merely 10% of it.

Lastly, don't trust the so called "smiles" IT'S ALL FAKE!

GIRLS IN THIS INDUSTRY LIES SO MUCH, THEY EVEN BELIEVE THEMSELVES....

Women wirking from venues can be extremely nasty about one another.

Just visit an SP a couple of times and by the third visit she'll be spilling the beans about her housemates. You'll hear how much she hates the hostess. How this one is beneath her because she offers FH; Or how that one has unprotected sex with clients. Meanwhile the one telling you all of this is always squeaky clean and innocent.

Unless clients have come forward accusing the SP of doing something, you should really think twice about believing her housemates.

On 2023-04-11 20:09:21 Kooni said:
On 2023-03-18 14:32:36 eziguy said: The same can be said about any other venue, the risk of being blackmailed exists. In this here case, it makes no sense to suspend a SP based on a rumour alone so I don't believe that the venue owner is playing open cards.

It is not the venue that are blackmailing it is an SP. Any SP could do it, whether working for a venue or not.

Hats of to the Benjamins for their actions, it was the right thing to do to "remove" the SP from the environment till the truth has been revealed.

Correct, any SP could do it but since we are referring to a specific venue, I compared apples with apples.

Almost a month later and the venue remains tight-lipped about the evidence? If a punter has indeed been blackmailed, then surely the SP should have been banned from advertising on ESA entirely. Something does not add up here.

I have visited Benjamin's. I have never had any issues with them in all my visits. The owner is an amazing person and always very kind and helpful.

Good on them for sorting whatever issue happened. What happened is between those involved and in the past. Everyone learns from experience and mistakes.

I don't expect there to be a public soap opera about it afterwards.

Yes well done 4 the venue but if it true & someone was blakcmailed then why the lady still avertising?

On 2023-04-12 14:30:52 JohnD69 said:
Yes well done 4 the venue but if it true & someone was blakcmailed then why the lady still avertising?

Is she advertising under a different venue or personally?

On 2023-04-12 14:30:52 JohnD69 said:
Yes well done 4 the venue but if it true & someone was blakcmailed then why the lady still avertising?

I guess the evidence will have to be provided by the blackmailed punter to ESA for ESA to implement a ban.

N4P

This is true but why would the venue get rid of her then. 4 me I think it better to just stay away from the lady 2 b safe. Sure it can happen anywhere but if there is the smoke!
I try to get a review for her at her new place but not yet. Nola will have to wait 4 me 4 now.

There's always two sides to a story - having interacting both through the venue and privately with the lady in question, can safely say I haven't had the same experience. Doesn't strike me as someone who would do this....just my 2 cents