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Stereotypes
Posted: 2021-05-24 12:50:14
Funny how a Caucasian lady asked about the size of my shlong before she could confirm the booking.
Fair enough porn has perpetuated the stereotype of "all black guys have big members". However, on the other hand gents like myself aren't that well endowed.
The look on her face when I took off my pants, she said "Oh I thought you were pulling my leg when you said it's just average"
My response: " nothing to pull between these legs, pinch away honey pinch away"
Dear ladies "not all black dudes are extremely hung"
Best,
Tebogo
Fair enough porn has perpetuated the stereotype of "all black guys have big members". However, on the other hand gents like myself aren't that well endowed.
The look on her face when I took off my pants, she said "Oh I thought you were pulling my leg when you said it's just average"
My response: " nothing to pull between these legs, pinch away honey pinch away"
Dear ladies "not all black dudes are extremely hung"
Best,
Tebogo
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Re: Stereotypes
Posted: 2021-05-24 13:05:21
Edited: 2021-05-24 13:10:37
I have been around longer than most.I was dating black guys long before it was fashionable. So I do think I am qualified to say that whatever ladies believe about black men is a load of bs. Yes, some have big dicks. The same goes for white men. If I were to think of the 3 biggest dicks I've been with, they were all on white men. Black men are rough- I have been with more rough coloured men than black men.The things that I am not comfortable with spans all races. And ladies who believe in these stereotypes..... how would you know? You havent been with the guys, so what are you basing your thoughts on?
I am in no way saying you must see all race.What I am saying is don't believe everything you hear.
Edited: 2021-05-24 13:10:37
On 2021-05-24 12:50:14 TebogoKhumalo said:
Funny how a Caucasian lady asked about the size of my shlong before she could confirm the booking.
Fair enough porn has perpetuated the stereotype of "all black guys have big members". However, on the other hand gents like myself aren't that well endowed.
The look on her face when I took off my pants, she said "Oh I thought you were pulling my leg when you said it's just average"
My response: " nothing to pull between these legs, pinch away honey pinch away"
Dear ladies "not all black dudes are extremely hung"
Best,
Tebogo
I have been around longer than most.I was dating black guys long before it was fashionable. So I do think I am qualified to say that whatever ladies believe about black men is a load of bs. Yes, some have big dicks. The same goes for white men. If I were to think of the 3 biggest dicks I've been with, they were all on white men. Black men are rough- I have been with more rough coloured men than black men.The things that I am not comfortable with spans all races. And ladies who believe in these stereotypes..... how would you know? You havent been with the guys, so what are you basing your thoughts on?
I am in no way saying you must see all race.What I am saying is don't believe everything you hear.
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Re: Stereotypes
Posted: 2021-05-24 13:21:28
Well said Nadia. I feel the same way about my experience with Indian SPs. They seem to have a negative stereotype based on what some Indian punters have warned me, but my experiences (with the exception of one) have been great. I can't now hold that one bad experience against every Indian SP, and I've already added one in Sandton to my bucket list.
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