On 2020-12-23 10:14:13 Rachel said:
On 2020-12-20 07:06:15 Kaycee ( The Original Milf) said: So as I mentioned earlier in the post. I'm prepared to pay an advertiser's ad, paid it, ad was extended. She said thank you. And that was it. Glad I could help. Lady however must be a bit shy so I don't expect her to confirm what I did publicly. Doesn't matter. I played my part.
Thank you KayCee x
On 2020-12-23 15:51:57 Miss Red said:
So paying it forward had a ripple effect far beyond the original act...
I had someone call me that said they making a donation shortly without taking me up on the offer;)
I asked why because if it is distance that is the reason for not taking me up on the offer I am glad to substitute with remote services;)
This person then told me that it is not because of the services or distance, but because of the whole drive last year and now the fact that ladies are at it with this pay it forward drive that Liza started again making a difference where they can, that he will be doing it.
We had a looooooong chat.
I want to share his story( have permission to do so)
So let's call him "John"..
Well John has done very well with his businesses and financially he is very secure.
But have failed miserably at relationships because of his love to gamble.
His relationship with his parents, siblings, wife and children was wrecked to say the least.
So he turned to the purple world for the intimacy and attention and in his mind love that he was not getting from his family, ,wife and children.
It was easy with Sps as no one knows his life ,his story,his flaws all they saw was the money and the Happy guy that was willing to pay for that little bit of time. They saw the best side of him.. when he was happy because he won and had money to spend. His family on the other hand saw the guy that was grumpy, in a bad mood and most times rude because when he lost he went home and not to SPs.
So last year the time of the Xmas drive he was inspired and he made a donation not as part of the drive but to another charity and through that donation he met a counselor that helped him work through his gambling and helped to mend the relationships that was broken.
Him and his whole family are now part of a reach out to people that face similar issues. He still punts but now it is on his bad days when the urge to gamble hits him , then he goes for a massage and avoid the urge to go to the casino. He realizes that yes he is still using punting as a crutch but the shift is there and he spends his happy days with his family and not the other way around.
It was very heart warming to listen to this man explain his journey and to realize that we played a small part in the healing process.
I think that things like the Xmas drive and Liza's paying it forward drive are little pebbles that make big ripples and often we don't even know how much impact it has around us.
On 2020-12-30 17:48:08 Liza said:
Hi Purple World,
I hope all of you continue to bless someone else with a good deed. May your action bring lots of blessings over you.
I just NEED to share something.
I was also a beneficiary of my PAY IT FORWARD initiative. I was also blessed by a giver. So Mr, you know who you are, I just want to say THANK YOU! THANK YOU FOR YOUR PAY IT FORWARD to me.
You don't know me at all. Never met, and you make time for me, and spoil me. I'm speechless. Again THANK YOU Mr. I truly appreciate it!
Love
Liza
Xoxo
On 2020-12-30 18:37:38 vampirezn said:
I need a lady blesser in my life, to bless me with her goodies..
On 2020-12-30 19:24:25 Rachel said:
On 2020-12-30 18:37:38 vampirezn said:
I need a lady blesser in my life, to bless me with her goodies..
Hahahaha i am happy to share my "blessings" with you vampire!!