I have practiced cyber findom before and looking forward to starting again.

However, I still do not get why men like it. Anyone care to explain ?

Thought I had a grasp on all things kink, but clearly I was wrong... Had to google!

"Financial domination (also known as money slavery or findom) is a sexual fetish, in particular a practice of dominance and submission, where a submissive (money slave, finsub, paypig, human ATM, or cash piggy) will give gifts and money to a financial dominant (money mistress, findomme, money domme or cash master) "

Never to old to learn :)

Also known as rinsing. Quite a few men in the U.K. are into it, apparently. Russian girls were very adept at sniffing them out. Fucked if I'll ever understand why the men did it.

But all the girls I met who could pull it off had three things in common: highly intelligent, a good sense of what people are about, and a certain ruthlessness.

Much respect to you if you pull it off, Lupe Luxe.

The paying part & financial stream's direction I get.
Where/how/when does the guy get the sex?

If none then, using Ghostwrita's summary, the men must be highly thick, socially clueless, and completely gullible.
That's men with a few screws missing, never mind loose!
And you want to take advantage of these Lupe Luxe?
Says a lot about you - but my opinion differs with Ghostwrita's quite like our summaries do.

On 2019-12-01 20:27:13 Skomhc said:
The paying part & financial stream's direction I get.
Where/how/when does the guy get the sex?

If none then, using Ghostwrita's summary, the men must be highly thick, socially clueless, and completely gullible.
That's men with a few screws missing, never mind loose!
And you want to take advantage of these Lupe Luxe?
Says a lot about you - but my opinion differs with Ghostwrita's quite like our summaries do.

He doesn't get sex. Ironically, the men tend to be very well-off, high-functioning types. Not sure they're being taken advantage of, but I've never met a guy who's into it.

I have heard of this before, and I understand it the following way:

Money is seen as a sign of power, and there are men who feel very powerful because they have loads of cash in the bank. It's similar to bdsm, but not actually visiting a lady in that field of work, where you as the rich guy, hand over your "power" or money to someone else for them to do as they please.

I think if I had loads of cash in the bank and was working in a powerful position, I would probably entertain the idea as I do have an interest the various types of bdsm... but I'm currently a broke-ass punk, so count me out on this one.

Younger days met one... And he was gaga besotted with me. He had his then current Mistress contact me to explain to me how it works. I would then have been training under her.

Wanted me to tell him what to buy,where to spend his money. What I want or need.
And no it ain't asking for something.. It is literally telling him! And it ain't about sex very rarely has sex involved. It is domination but not with a cane or whip. But with attitude!
And then either rewarding him with praise or pictures or allowing him to bring you that gift. Or totally rejection, refusing to see him, talk to him or not accepting a gift for stupid reasons ect. if he did not do what u told him to.
This then on both accounts lead to him even doing more and wanting to please you more.

I just could not play that part. I ain't materialistic. I ain't cold enough or greedy enough to do that.
I could never use someone like that, although in their minds it is okay.

I kindly declined. And moved on.

I later heard he had two Mistresses the original and a second in charge. Both driving new cars and having a house that he paid for every month.

If I was a colder more ruthless person I could have been a rich SP..lol

But that kinda thing ain't my style. I am more of a giving than a taking type. And staying true to who I was today in hindsight was the best thing I did for myself. I did not go down a path that was not inline with my personality just for the sake of money.

But as all kinks there is someone out there that can and will cater to your needs.

And @ LL. If you can pull this of don't loose sight of the real you..and don't get to use to the money. Mistress get replaced just as easily as normal SPs get replaced.

Doubled sorry

On 2019-12-01 20:05:03 ghostwrita said:
Also known as rinsing. Quite a few men in the U.K. are into it, apparently. Russian girls were very adept at sniffing them out. Fucked if I'll ever understand why the men did it.

But all the girls I met who could pull it off had three things in common: highly intelligent, a good sense of what people are about, and a certain ruthlessness.

Much respect to you if you pull it off, Lupe Luxe.

Very true, most of the men are English. England seem to be big on fem and findon. Yet to figure out why.